I Hate It When Wednesday

TysWife2Be

What you got this week ladies?

TysWife2Be

I hate it when you KNOW you misplaced something and you have looked all over the place for it.

I "misplaced" my debit card OVER a week ago and keep telling myself I am going to look for it one more time before I report it lost.

I know the 16 digit card number and the secuurity code on the back and some of my bills are paid via my debit card.

Well, I have NOT had another chance to look for it and I could have had another card by now if I wasnt so stubborn and wanting to keep the same card number.

I guarantee now that I reported it lost, it will show up.

Oh yea, I have a personalized card with my daughters picture on it and will have to reorder that AGAIN so then I will be waiting for ANOTHER card to come after I finally get the new one...

WOW...

LoL

ufsweetiebear

I hate it when guests call you upset because you didn't also invite their girlfriend/baby daddy/whatever (or take it upon themselves to rsvp for 2) and then you find out later that they never ASKED this person if they wanted to go or if they could get the time off work or if they had the money to attend so they're coming alone. We would've paid for a few more plates had we not double checked our plus ones! ARRRGGGHHH! Make sure people can attend before you RSVP!!!!

PhillyBride123

I hate it when I have doubts about getting married. I know noone's relationship is perfect but still...(I can't believe I just typed this but I just couldn't hold it in any longer...)

eagles347

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_hate-wednesday-10?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural Wedding BoardsForum:400Discussion:5ba10d8c-ac59-4f3a-9f36-bf599dab6775Post:7d344a34-17a4-42fa-8703-6c6af4c8e894">Re: I Hate It When Wednesday</a>:
[QUOTE]I hate it when I have doubts about getting married. I know noone's relationship is perfect but still...(I can't believe I just typed this but I just couldn't hold it in any longer...)
Posted by PhillyBride123[/QUOTE]

Don't feel bad...although God doesn't sow seeds of doubt, we are human and it happens to the best. Sometimes we feel like we are alone with feelings like this (especially seeing all of the smiling faces on these boards), but you really aren't alone. Just pray and seek clarity and be sure be for your wedding day that your doubts are not things that cannot be worked out. Try pre-marital counseling also...we start this Saturday and I cannot wait. *knottie hug*

prncsz

I hate it when I think something is taken care of only to find out it's not. Thanks alot financial aid!

@phillybride-I've been there as a matter of fact I think everyone goes through that phase at one time or another during their engagement. For me all I have seen is divorce. My mom has been married 3 times my dad twice so at times I wonder how my own marriage will be. FI and I have both decided and are determined that we will do what it takes to make our marriage successful. Pray about it and remain open with your FI at all times and vice versa about your feelings.

PhillyBride123

eagles347-Thank you for those words of encouragement. I have really been going through it lately...I try to ignore the feeling and just focus on "wedding stuff" but then reality sets in and I start thinking about "married stuff"...I really care about my fiance and he has good qualities but I am not sure if I really want to spend the rest of my life with his major character flaws too... I am so confused...I HATE being confused...

PhillyBride123

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_hate-wednesday-10?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural Wedding BoardsForum:400Discussion:5ba10d8c-ac59-4f3a-9f36-bf599dab6775Post:4d6f6b16-6b84-45ab-b786-63611223fe59">Re: I Hate It When Wednesday</a>:
[QUOTE]@phillybride-I've been there as a matter of fact I think everyone goes through that phase at one time or another during their engagement. For me all I have seen is divorce. Posted by prncsz[/QUOTE]

prncsz-Thank you. I honestly felt alone because everyone sounds sooo happy and I am over here sad as ever. I feel a little better knowing that I'm not the only one that has felt this way...