220 to 150....HELP

MrsSmith2Be02

Cut this guest list! OMG its torture!

[Deleted User]

more for a second I thought you were tambout weight, I came in here to loudtalk you bout starvation n shyt.  lol.

how many rsvps have come back so far?

MrsSmith2Be02

I haven't even sent any invites out yet. LOL. Not sending out until September but from my files I have 7 revisions of the guest list. LOL Ridiculous.

Now weight...I'm trying to lose this LAST 10 lbs....its not moving.

CaseynMike

OMG I know how you feel!! I have the thought in my head to go through my list and take off people that I have not literally spoken to or seen in the last 6 months....Maybe you should go through your list and really look at and see who really can be cut due to interaction?? I dont know sis...I hope this helps some way!

[Deleted User]

she said she's on draft #7.    *thud*

girl you gone hafta start being rude and unsouthern on the phone.   see if you can get anybody to stomp off in a huff  "AND another thing, I'll be damned if I'm coming to that wedding!"    *morgan looks for red pen*

p.s. I'm karatechopping you for one of the few times I was able to log on temporarily.  because right after that I got in the car and went to find a chick-fil-a chocolate chip cookie.    hereyago

MrsSmith2Be02

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_220-to-150help?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:400Discussion:5d1c0795-cb91-4447-be3f-0d9d6dd243d3Post:0879ef3f-a0e4-44cd-b476-ddca9bc6e008">Re: 220 to 150....HELP</a>:
[QUOTE]she said she's on draft #7.    *thud* girl you gone hafta start being rude and unsouthern on the phone.   see if you can get anybody to stomp off in a huff  "AND another thing, I'll be damned if I'm coming to that wedding!"    *morgan looks for red pen* p.s. I'm karatechopping you for one of the few times I was able to log on temporarily.  because right after that I got in the car and went to find a c<strong>hick-fil-a chocolate chip cookie</strong>.    hereyago
Posted by sultryzulu[/QUOTE]

Yes.....7...number of completion  and I WISH i could say its ova with! Primarily, my mom has a large number of people on here BUT she's contributing a LARGE portion of the reception, but I'm really trying to get this down to 150 max. I'm gonna get there.....some way....

Now to that CFA Cookie....with the warm chocolately goodness! #jealous

kcc76

Girl I know! I didn't have to cut that many but my guest list was supposed to be for 135 and it got up to 155. So now its down to 135 again. I will be sending mine out in SEpt too. Look at your list and think will I be upset if this person isn't there? If you have really had any interaction with that person in a year then maybe they shouldn't be on the list. I read this artical that was helpful on how to cut a guest list. If I remember when I go home I will post the link to the artical. If I still have it. Good luck.

tirathemrs

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_220-to-150help?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:400Discussion:5d1c0795-cb91-4447-be3f-0d9d6dd243d3Post:3e4510e5-3e99-44c1-adc3-0f7a3c7d9245">Re: 220 to 150....HELP</a>:
[QUOTE]more <strong>for a second I thought you were tambout weight, I came in here to loudtalk you bout starvation n shyt.  lol.</strong> how many rsvps have come back so far?
Posted by sultryzulu[/QUOTE]

<div>I THOUGHT IT WAS ABOUT WEIGHT TOO LOL LOL</div>

keyaira04

Maybe this will help?

http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_who-to-invite

20pearls16

I'm so glad I am past that part and the people that I was on the fence about declined so that was a win win for us.

MrsSmith2Be02

The biggest part is this is a 3 generation native atlantans. By that I mean, on BOTH sides we are native atlantans (me + FI, my mom + his dad, my grandma who is still living + his paternal grandma who isnt). Therefore....not only is is just US we are accomodating, but those familial ties too. Its too much, BUT I can only speak for my side when I know that a lot of my mom and grandmas people supported me in EVERYTHING so that is the hard part. I wish that most people lived out of state...but nope that isn't it either.

MissusD1116

I'm soooo not looking forward to RSVP madness. But I'm rude sucker so I shouldn't have to many issues!