So I decided to fill yall in on the drama first, Now the good news. I mailed my invites out on Tuesday and got my first RSVP YESTERDAY. I opted out on sending formal RSVP cards with stamps. So I just put my number on the Dinner and Dancing card in my pocketfold and I gave the option of going on my wedding website RSVP. So far I have gotten 5 Rsvps. I am so happy!!