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Rose Ceremony (for anyone else interested in it)

Kevin and Sylvia have asked me to publicly express their love and appreciation to you, their parents, for all the love and guidance you have given them.  It is through you, that they have learned the meaning of the words “love, honor and respect”.  It is with these ‘gifts’ that you have bestowed upon them-they will now come to share and exchange with each other.  It is a tribute to you that they now stand here before us.   For it is not just their love for each other that has brought them to this point-but it is also your love for them. The flowers they give to their parents represent the feeling of gratitude in the hearts of Kevin and Sylvia.  This moment marks a major change in their lives, but the ties of love and friendship with their parents will continue.  (The bride and groom then walk together to their parents, who rise, and the bride and groom hug each of them and give each a rose.)For that, they say thank you. You may be seated.

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  • edited December 2011
    Thanks !! Im still debating if we will do this.
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  • edited December 2011
    GOT TO HAVE IT!!! LOL!! Thank you so much! Does it matters what color rose you use?
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  • cincy2011cincy2011 member
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    edited December 2011
    That's a really sweet part of the ceremony and I'd love to do it. HOWEVER, I have my mom and stepdad (who I consider my "real" parents) and my dad and stepmom (who I don't see that often and never was really around them growing up).  I love my dad/stepmom, but honestly the relationship is nothing in comparison to my mom/stepdad.  Therefore, would it be extremely rude to to this with just my FI's parents and my mom/stepdad?  Or would I have to include my dad/stepmom also, even though it would be kind of fake???  Sorry I kind of thread-jacked here!!!!!  LOL
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  • edited December 2011
    Cincy: thats so similar to my issue. Thats why Im so on the fence about it. Is it rude to just give it to the parents and not my step parents ? My parents arent together anymore. And it would be so phoney for to give it to my step parents. They didnt raise me or give me any guidance, even though they were around. Im definitely not close to them.
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    edited December 2011
    Kia, it's such a sticky issue!  I think my dad/stepmom would be hurt if they weren't included, so I probably won't do it.  My dad will probably already feel weird b/c my mom is walking me down the aisle instead of him.  (oh well - she raised me!!!!) so I don't want to add to the potential hurt.  Man, I love that idea though - I really wish I could do it!  
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  • edited December 2011
    Cincy, how about just do it for the mothers only not including the dads?


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  • edited December 2011
    Thanks for sharing Dollbaby!


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  • ufsweetiebearufsweetiebear member
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks for sharing! I really didn't want to do a unity candle or sand box so this might be a good alternative!
  • edited December 2011

    Thanks for sharing!
  • cincy2011cincy2011 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_rose-ceremony-anyone-else-interested?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural Wedding BoardsForum:400Discussion:6887c80d-67c3-49c9-a5c4-e455833c725dPost:310529bb-137d-43c6-bf5c-afcd36c3cc7e">Re: Rose Ceremony (for anyone else interested in it)</a>:
    [QUOTE]Cincy, how about just do it for the mothers only not including the dads?
    Posted by mahoganieyes[/QUOTE]

    That would be really nice then!  And it wouldn't feel strange to my stepmom b/c it would seem like only biological mothers were included!  I like it, I like it!!  Thanks girl!!!

    BTW, I hate that you can't make the GTG!  I was so looking forward to meeting you!  We definitely need to get together sometime soon!! <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-smile.gif" border="0" alt="Smile" title="Smile" />
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  • Dollbaby357Dollbaby357 member
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    edited December 2011
    mahoganieeyes thanks for answering that question that was what I was going to say we had this part with the intentions of only addressing our moms who we were giving a rose.

    No it doesn't matter what color rose you give, in fact yu can give a bouquet or any other memento gift you choose to give on that day it can be named address to parents, we named it rose ceremony on our programs so our parents wouldn't see it coming :-)

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  • edited December 2011

    Don't make me feel worse!Frown Does Sundays work well for you to meet up? I know the 27th you have pics.



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  • cincy2011cincy2011 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_rose-ceremony-anyone-else-interested?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:400Discussion:6887c80d-67c3-49c9-a5c4-e455833c725dPost:32477eeb-3841-45fa-8264-f5204634b150">Re: Rose Ceremony (for anyone else interested in it)</a>:
    [QUOTE]Don't make me feel worse!  Does Sundays work well for you to meet up? I know the 27th you have pics.
    Posted by mahoganieyes[/QUOTE]

    <div>Awww, I'm not trying to make you feel bad!  :)  Sundays after church (afternoon/evening) are usually fine for me.  Yep, the 27th is out but Sundays after that should be good!!  </div>
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