I spoke to my FSIL this weekend who informed that while her husband ordered and received his suit the other groomsmen have not. We're having a partial destination wedding in my FH country where he was born and raised (The British Virgin Islands). The two groomsmen that haven't ordered their suits yet live there. So I ask my FH, why is it okay that my girlfriends have shelled $700 for flights, $1500 for hotel fees, hosted a shower and bachelorette party, gave me a gift at said shower and bachelorette party, shopped for their dresses and then purchased a $300 bridesmaid gown without complaint and your brother and nephew can't simply order a $100 suit. The suits are custom made and take 6 weeks from the date of order. There is about 31 days left til our wedding, seriously!!! So I get on facebook and as the nephew why he hadn't ordered yet and he had the nerve to tell me he told my FH to order his last week and that he would reimburse him. I'm like, we're busy planning a wedding and paying all the associated cost and you're asking him to pay it. I'm disgusted and angry.
I told my FH today that if they don't have the suit they'll be in the audience. And he had the nerve to look at me like, "how dare you". I felt a Bridezilla moment approaching so I had to ignore him for the rest of our commute.