So for my bachelorette party, I'd like to have dinner with my mom, FMIL, etc. before we (just the girls) go out. My parents are putting an addition on their house (my grandma is moving in), so it's kind of a mess right now. My FILs have a very nice house with a big formal dining room and could definitely fit everyone. I was thinking of asking FMIL to host a dinner. Is that rude to ask though? I'm not sure how to word it. My mom, sister and I could definitely help with the food, I just feel like her house would be better to have it at. Thoughts?