Question of the Day

TysWife2Be

I will do this as a survey so it will be anonymous...

sweetjess2011

This was a really good question and an easy answer as well. I have NEVER cheated on FH or even thought of it. Im one of those girls that has never cheated in any relationship. My thing is I wouldn't want it done to me. Cant wait to see the results on this question. Good one "mod"

TysWife2Be

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[QUOTE]This was a really good question and an easy answer as well. I have NEVER cheated on FH or even thought of it. Im one of those girls that has never cheated in any relationship. My thing is I wouldn't want it done to me. Cant wait to see the results on this question. Good one "mod"
Posted by sweetjess2011[/QUOTE]

Thanks!
It popped into my head yesterday but I had already posted a question so I said I would save it...glad I remembered though...lol

LSAS

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[QUOTE]This was a really good question and an easy answer as well. I have NEVER cheated on FH or even thought of it. Im one of those girls that has never cheated in any relationship. My thing is I wouldn't want it done to me. Cant wait to see the results on this question. Good one "mod"
Posted by sweetjess2011[/QUOTE

Agree with this 100%! I have been in relationships where I have been cheated on and was devastating...

hotrocker2011

Nope.....I never have and never will... as sweetjess said i was never one of those ppl to do that in any relationship...

msapril0730

My FI and I were on a "break" and he slept with someone else. He said we weren't together so it didn't count but we were still physically and emotionally involved so to me it counted as him cheating! I had a chance to cheat on him with my male bestie but I decided two wrongs wouldn't make a right, it wouldn't make me feel better about what he had done, and I didn't want to ruin my friendship with my bestie.

BlissPhilly

No I NEVER have! But it burns me up that his girlfriends in the past have and now I have to deal with his trust issues even though I am not the cause of it!

cherryblossom5

I have cheated!! and it was the worst decision i have ever made!! i don't mind sharing bc this is my testimony and some woman need to read this . we all make mistakes, but when the going gets tough ...you don't run away !! you stand by your man and Pray!!! 
Yes our relationship is alot stronger and we have a love that i never knew we could have!

M1ssJ

I cheated. At that point in our relationship, I didn't regret it at all. Now that we're engaged , I never would.

wallacje

I've been the person that the woman calls and tells that my dude is cheating.  Definitely not a good feeling at all.

I would never do that, might as well be single.

mahoganieyes

We're human...live and you learn.

simbidi

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[QUOTE]This was a really good question and an easy answer as well. I have NEVER cheated on FH or even thought of it.<strong> Im one of those girls that has never cheated in any relationship.</strong> My thing is I wouldn't want it done to me. Cant wait to see the results on this question. Good one "mod"
Posted by sweetjess2011[/QUOTE]

<div>
</div><div>This... exactly.  I have never... ever, but it's been done to me.  I would walk away before I ever think about cheating.  That's just me.</div>

cherryblossom5

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[QUOTE]We're human...live and you learn.
Posted by mahoganieyes[/QUOTE]

That is so true!! 

cincy2011

Never cheated on FI, never even thought about it.  Once we fell for each other, there was no more temptation for me to look elsewhere.

purplehoney

Ive never been a cheater and i wont start now...

lisa4766

I barely have time for one man... Two men... No way! Besides, I have been cheated on. Not a good feeling.   I have total trust in him and he in me.  We are really too old for all of the High School crap. He goes out with his boys, and me with my girls.  I dont even worry about it.  I tell him if a woman offers him a drink...he better take it, say thanks and keep it moving.. times are hard, no need to turn down a free drink.  LOL.. we are silly that way.   LOL

lil01

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[QUOTE]We're human...live and you learn.
Posted by mahoganieyes[/QUOTE]


Exactly!!

Yes..I've cheated & so has FI. We met over 10 years ago, both living on campus, and both being in our late teens. So I can say that we didn't take each other so seriously although we were in a relationship. Once we both grew up & graduated college, we both outgrew that phase and were able to work on trusting each other and just being honest. We're one of the very few that survived a campus relationship!

Carla1019

Three years ago when FI and I first agreed to be boyfriend and girlfriend he was coming out of a relationship with his ex. I never knew. He considers it not cheating but I consider any secrets you keep from your partner cheating. Emotional cheating is also cheating. We struggled with trust issues for a very long time, but now I can safely walk down the aisle with him and trust he will not break my heart. As long as you put God first everything else will work out.

I commend all the ladies that admitted to your lapse in judgement. We all fall short and no one is perfect. I'm glad that your relationships did not end and I believe going through something like that will make you stronger as a couple. It is better to deal with that before marriage than after.