What is really going on?

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He said no to the instrumentals because according to him it's the same thing. It was really a big mess. Like I said after my wedding saturday I will not be stepping foot in that church ever again. When I tell you this lady lied told a bold faced one but then want to tell us you can't play anything in the santuary it's the lord's house but you can lie in the boardroom of the church though. It was disgusting that he sat there and backed her up. I'm like ok if what she said is true please tell me why we are sitting here today discussing this?

I also brought up the other lady's wedding and he said they have changed their policy since then and continue to change their policy well shouldn't this policy be documented some where? Instead of owning up to their multiple mistakes with my wedding they continued to toss the blame. The sound lady/secretary/wedding expert is going to tell me it was my responsiblity to make sure my wedding events were announced. Hello I mailed the invitiations and when they were not announced I followed up on them. She told me although she sorts the mail it is not her job to do anything. I'm like well what are you here for and your hands were the last one on my invitiation.

I ended up leaving really disgusted and discouraged because I have had a deep respect for my pastor. He has always preached doing things in excellence, etc but then for this to happen where his team has dropped the ball nobody takes responsiblity for their actions instead the blame is tossed on us people who have never used the facility for any type of event. So like I said we will be looking for a new church home after the wedding/honeymoon.