I'm wondering if you ladies can help me with a situation. Be totally honest with me, I can take it.
So I was friends with this girl since grade school through highschool. We played sports together, vacationed together, etc. However when college rolled around, we eventually lost touch with eachother. It was no big deal. We just went our seperate ways. Of course, with the start of Myspace and now Facebook, we 'friended' eachother and have spoken on occasion over the last few years.
I saw her 3 years ago when she came to MD to visit for my birthday and it was awkward. Honestly, we're just 2 different people. I saw her again the following year, when she came to my parent's house for another birthday party. I haven't spoken to her since. Again, nothing bad happened...just life happened.
Last Wednesday she called my parents' house and left a message to ask if she could come to their house and go swimming. WTF? Who does that? Then she starts texting me asking me where my parents are (my mom was with me getting wedding stuff done). I told her that we were busy. She then proceeded to invite herself to my parents' pool again. I again told her that no one was home and that we were busy.
She has been texting me NON-STOP since then.She wants to know how we've been and what's been going on. I don't know if she knows about the wedding. It's an awkward situation b/c she's not invited. What would you say to her? It kind of feels like an invasion of space and she just won't go away. I don't like to hurt anyone's feelings, but I don't feel like dodging texts for the next week. WWYD??
ETA: She doesn't know about the wedding. She just text me again asking how I was doing and if I was engaged yet or had any babies on the way. WTF MAN!!!
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