Going to hurt this man

leatba · October 2012

I have to vent. Omg. So last month FI decided he didn't like the venue we had paid a deposit on already. I was mad but ok with that. Today he tells me that he's not sure about the colors anymore. Are you effin kidding me. I've done mock ups of all paper in our current colors and I'm so in love with the bridesmaids dresses in that color that I want one. He wants to switch from lavender, silver and white to orange or powder blue. Ummmmmm we have had our colors that he chose since May. Is he serious? I am not happy.

fancywright2 · October 2012

Deep breath! What is his reason for wanting to change colors? Listen to his reason (calmly) and then point out all the reasons to keep your color. Has your bridesmaid picked out their dresses? You mentioned that you've finished the mock ups. Have you done/ordered anything else in your colors?

leatba · October 2012

He said he just saw something in other colors and isn't sure. We have picked the dresses already but none have ordered. That's not a good enough reason to change the colors for me. He's seen the mock ups. They are on our dresser and he took pics of them. I've been working on this since May. His latest statement was that the bridesmaids and the groomsmen. Don't have to match. He got a blank stare with the statement not in our wedding

footballwife77 · October 2012

lol! welcome to MY WORLD!!! You got a groomzilla in training. I gave in and gave up, hopefully you can stand your ground and win your battle- if you need to call in reinforcements (moms, siblings, WEDDING PLANNER). You still got some time to figure things out, good luck!