Groomzilla sigh

thedivav

So some of y'all know I don't really want a wedding he does and he wants a big wedding
So we compromised and said destination wedding
We *which is really him * are paying for this out of our pockets
My dad could have helped but he is not here any more so it's on us *again him*

I am looking for venues as we speak and I asked him to send me his guest list... Didn't get it yet
So on date night this is the convo that happend
Me: baby, how many are on your guest list
Him: oh 180
Me: blink blink 180?! Uh
Him: oh I know I can cut that in half
Me: half?! That's 90 people with out my family, the wedding party or us ugh really
You know that you are paying for this because I don't have a real job
Him: yeah I know, I plan to get my beg on at the family reunion

thedivav

Sorry iPad acting crazy I love him but I want to strangle him some days lol

MrsJenrette

Girl.. his guest list is BEYOND!!!!.. especially for a destination wedding.

Where were you thinking of going for the wedding? Some islands currency double or triple the us dollars (like Barbados).. you might wanna consider an island like that to stretch your (his) money!..

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[QUOTE]Girl.. his guest list is BEYOND!!!!.. especially for a destination wedding. Where were you thinking of going for the wedding? Some islands currency double or triple the us dollars (like Barbados)..<strong> you might wanna consider an island like that to stretch your (his) money!..</strong>
Posted by MrsJenrette[/QUOTE]

*cough* mexico *cough*

hugs V.  In 826 years of living I've ever even met 180 people.  dayum.


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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Groomzilla sigh : *cough* mexico *cough* hugs V.  <strong><em><u><font color="#993366">In 826 years of living I've ever even met 180 people.</font></u></em></strong>  dayum.
Posted by sultryzulu[/QUOTE]

UMMMM....are you part vampire?? LOL.....

V I am sorry that this is going on....but who in the sam west hell has 180 people at their destination wedding? I say stay home if its going tobe that many people..

thedivav

we are doing state side in SC i hope or maybe where we went to school in alabama

uh no we will not be inviting his 180 guest list humph he bumped his head 

and i told my mom why did she think it was sweet 

O_o to her.... have a seat lady lol 

he wants all these folks but he dont have no money for an engagement ring... yeah kneegrow have a seat _/ 

sorry i had to get that off my chest lol 

keyaira04

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[QUOTE] he wants all these folks but he dont have no money for an engagement ring... yeah kneegrow have a seat _/  sorry i had to get that off my chest lol 
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MrsBoss2012

Girl get it on out that's what we are here for! Not getting his beg on at the family reunion though? LOL Once he starts seeing how much it costs to feed 180 folks on his side alone he will be signing a different tune!

keysmit

OH MY.. LOL. 180... I agree with MRSBOSS.. Once he start seeing the cost, etc. He gone chop that list down real quick. LOL...

soontobehasrouni

girl mine did this too. I told him that if you dont have a text or call from them in your phone from the last month...they cant come. im not feeding some stranger!

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[QUOTE]So some of y'all know I don't really want a wedding he does and he wants a big wedding So we compromised and said destination wedding We *which is really him * are paying for this out of our pockets My dad could have helped but he is not here any more so it's on us *again him* I am looking for venues as we speak and I asked him to send me his guest list... Didn't get it yet So on date night this is the convo that happend Me: baby, how many are on your guest list Him: oh 180 Me: blink blink 180?! Uh Him: oh I know I can cut that in half Me: half?! That's 90 people with out my family, the wedding party or us ugh really You know that you are paying for this because I don't have a real job Him: yeah I know, I plan to get my beg on at the family reunion
Posted by thedivav[/QUOTE]

footballwife77

Hey diva! we are the EXACT same way! We were supposed to go to vegas and get married but he wanted the whole production with the boy and his parents and gm's and bm's. and there's no way in H*LL i'm gonna hear the word mom in vegas. So anyways, we decided to just do it here (it ended up being a little cheaper). BUT my advice to you. if he wants to be in charge of everything. keep an EYE on him. mine is starting to do everything halfa$$. not only are are invites messed up but he broke all the vases that were going on the tables. also break the numbers down to him. he'l might be thinking $1000 will cover it when all reality you looking at $35/per person. so show him that 35x180.

thedivav

ooh this is the kicker he wants this wedding but I am the one who is planning it

i asked him about that the other night... like how am i the one planning this shebang and you want it.... wtf really?! 

*sigh* but i already know that if i want stuff done right and in a timely manner i have to do it... been that way since we have been together.... 

i wont even get on the engagement pics..... which we are supposed to take in september 

i am glad i have yall to listen to me and understand lol 

thanks divas 

oh i told him the guest list will be 75 OR LESS and that includes us the wedding party of 12 and my family too so he already knows that 180 is a foollywag mess lol 

RealHappyGal

worry not, 180 people would not show up to a destination wedding, but he needs to get it together.  smh... And I too am in the "no engaagement ring club"   So u aint alone.... smh

thedivav

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[QUOTE]worry not, 180 people would not show up to a destination wedding, but he needs to get it together.  smh... And I too am in the "no engaagement ring club"   So u aint alone.... smh
Posted by RealHappyGal[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>thanks glad i am not alone lol my lil finger feels so nakkid lol 

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