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Mods and not so Modly like behavior

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Re: Mods and not so Modly like behavior

  • aghouston86aghouston86 member
    Eighth Anniversary 500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    I asked why you couldn't just say it to that person. What is the point? Does it make you feel better inside to take out your frustration my taping away angrily on your keyboard about a person you dont know? I didn't say I saw anything like that specifically on the May board, but you read it and take it how you want if that's what makes you happy. I just don't understand why the negativity? Aren't we all suppose to be planning weddings and seekig friendly advice from one another, or are we suppose to be bashing eachother to no end? Obviously I realize that you could read my posts just like I can read yours, or the post made about me on the may 11 board to call in the troops. That if anything is cowardly. If you notice. I never mentioned anyone specifically, because I really didn't feel the need to. I don't not like any of you who responded in opposition to my post, I just generally wanted other peoples thoughts because these ladies are really good about giving good feedback, not because I felt "safe". I even said that not everything in the FFF threads is out of line, but some stuff is. And there is no denying that. I'm not saying that a mod should ban anyone for being out of like, but I think that a certain standard should be upheld at least. You can get your point across in the FFF threads without crossing the line. I just generally think that those threads encourage out of line behaviour at times especially since there is no "guideline" per-say. That's all.
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  • aggiebugaggiebug member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_mods-not-modly-like-behavior?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural Wedding BoardsForum:400Discussion:79f07f39-5431-4054-9b85-2bfc26a59dd2Post:2006f291-7aa6-4e3d-866d-687d8e05e0d9">Re: Mods and not so Modly like behavior</a>:
    [QUOTE]It this Flame Firday thing. Basically where other knotties go to "flame" (talk crap about) other knotties they may dissagree with, gotten into it with, or any other negative thing they can think of. You can for sure find it on the Etiquitte Board EVERY Friday, I saw one on the May 2011, not sure which other boards do it, but I was super suprised to see a Mod had started the thread on I think the May one...
    Posted by aghouston86[/QUOTE]

    hmm I guess not technically a call out, but really? I think this is close enough.  And no she posted on the board because you are ridiculous and when we SAW the ridiculousness we decided to give our opinions about it.  Isn't that what you wanted opinions about your opinions?
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  • aghouston86aghouston86 member
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    edited December 2011
    Yes she summed it up pretty well. I think some of you gave your opinions for the wrong reasons, and not really to be constructive, and that's fine. Thanks for playing! We can agree to disagree and call it a day :)
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  • aggiebugaggiebug member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_mods-not-modly-like-behavior?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:400Discussion:79f07f39-5431-4054-9b85-2bfc26a59dd2Post:8f8fcd3f-0a69-47e7-a24b-5abda578f3bb">Re: Mods and not so Modly like behavior</a>:
    [QUOTE]Yes she summed it up pretty well. I think some of you gave your opinions for the wrong reasons, and not really to be constructive, and that's fine. Thanks for playing! We can agree to disagree and call it a day :)
    Posted by aghouston86[/QUOTE]

    and by she you mean YOU are agreeing with YOU...That part I quoted was you. 

    Don't worry I never figured I would be able to change your mind, I don't have magical powers.
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  • aghouston86aghouston86 member
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    edited December 2011
    Haha I was knotting from my phone last night and I could have sworn that you quoted sombody else, lol, my mistake. should have read it more carefully. Knotting from a phone is a totally difference experience than knotting from a computer, lol.

    You haven't changed my mind at all, and I still think what I think, but I completly appreciate the difference in perspectives. I obviously am not the only one who feels the way I feel, and neither are you, hence, why we can agree to dissagree :)
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