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True colors.....

codomcodom
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Sooooooooo here we are 4 days before the wedding and we are down 1 groomsmen and 1 bridesmaid smh..... FI is a lil upset b/c he flew out to Cali to be in this groomsmen's wedding and they have been boys for the longest....(he's having a groomzilla moment) I think the thing that hurts him most is his friend strung him along saying he'd bought his plane ticket etc when he had made NO plans at all.... My bm on the other hand just admitted she had not bought a dress and was hopping to find something when she gets here thursday off the rack since 'she's so little they carry her size in everything' I told her to just not bother.... I'm trying to keep it zen and stress free this week....... And FI wondered why I scheduled a 1.5 hr hot stone massage for Thursday smh!!
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  • FabbiegirlFabbiegirl member
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    edited December 2011
    Girl, sorry about the BP mishaps.  You are right to not worry as much.  I feel you on the massage thing too.
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  • empeguesempegues member
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    edited December 2011
    That blows!  It's not like you were asking the world of the BM and GM... they could at least have been honest with you.  But now that it's done with, RELAX and enjoy your massage! 
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  • Kedeisha8Kedeisha8
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    edited December 2011
    Girl u are dealing with this much better than others would but no stress enjoy your massage
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  • BaesmomBaesmom
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    edited December 2011

    Girl you are handling this great.  I do understand your FI's feelings i would be a little upset too. You cant stress the "small stuff" just go with the flow and your day will be perfect.  Look at it this way, they are missing out not you. 

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  • busybruckbusybruck
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    edited December 2011
    The best thing you could do was tell her no because you don't need that stress this close. I also am trying to schedule a massage the Friday before mine.
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  • Ky925Ky925
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    edited December 2011
    You are handling this sooo well....you are right! No need to stress, can't control the actions of others.  Hope you keep it up through this week and enjoy that massage!!
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  • chescamchescam member
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    edited December 2011
    I agree, you're handling this really well. Sorry that this happened to you. It's so disappointiing. Keep moving on with your planning and enjoy your special day. 
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  • lil01lil01
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    edited December 2011
    I agree with pp about you handling folks backing out last minute SO well. Try to remain stress free this week & keep the focus on you and your FI.
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  • MsAmeera25MsAmeera25 member
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    edited December 2011
    Sorry this happened...on the bright side your bridal party is still even...since you lost 1 on each side....Enjoy your massage...tune out the negativity and relax!!!

     

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