Has anyone done this? Where do you have your ceremony? I want to look into it because it seems easier than all that catering and vendor stuff. Plus, they make food all day. So there's less of a chance of f-ing that up. (right?)Anyway, I'm just not sure about the ceremony. FI has never stepped foot in a church, so it seems akward to try that. It's stressing me out. FI is helping, he just doesn't "get it" sometimes... (really i'm just looking for more affordable alternatives that can allow us to do all this sooner than next October. because really, stress makes me want candy. and i wont fit in my dress then)