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Weight Loss...

This is really on my heart and I hope it is taken as I mean it, with the BEST of intentions...I have noticed that lots of you have plans to lose a significant amount of weight before your big days! Great...I had the same goal. I was able to do that and now I have to maintain so that I don't have to keep buying smaller clothes. Good problem to have sometimes, but I'm happy where I am now.

With that said, I wanted to share some things that helped me. If any of you have things that were helpful to you, post them here as well.

1) Talk about your plans! Let your lunch buddies, family, and close friends know that you are making healthier choices and you may discover an accountability partner that you didn't know you had.

2) Cut out the junk! Eat foods that taste good, but limit the sweets! A GREAT place to start is by cutting out empty drink calories. Let go of juice and soda and use Crystal Light if you MUST have flavor in your drinks. They are 5-10 calories per packet.

3) Download nutrition guides or ask for them when you visit restaurants. You deserve to know what you are putting in your body.

4) Figure out how many calories you should take in for the amount of exercise you do normally. I googled "caloric intake" and was able to find credible websites to determine mine.

5) Don't get discouraged, but weigh yourself every so often...particulary when you've been doing well. It will motivate you if you can see results.

6) Exercise...I combined light to moderate weights and cardio, but if you aren't there yet...just do the cardio to start. The elliptical burns more calories way faster than the treadmill so that's what I used the most.

7) Watch televsion or use music to distract you while you workout. My gym had televisions on each machine so I plugged earphones in and watched a show or two while I exercised. Not all do, so at the very least, put some music on your cell phone and let it get you hype!

8) Keep workout clothes in your office or car...it is so hard to go home after work and then convince yourself to get back out to work out.

9) Purge your home of all the stuff you KNOW you shouldn't eat and then don't buy it again. Cook with less fat, less cholesterol, less starch, etc.

10) Cut down on your fat intake, but don't eliminate it. Your body will stop producing as many fat-burning enzymes if it doesn't have a need for them.

11) If you like sweets, buy some Jello pudding cups...they have fat-free and sugar-free ones that are sooooo good!

As I mentioned before, this is just my own personal advice based on my own personal experience. Every person is different. I'm interested on if you all have any tips that you could offer for people trying to lose or even maintain their weight! Best wishes to everyone who is working on making healthier lifestyle choices!
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Re: Weight Loss...

  • edited December 2011
    Thanks so much for this! I have been saying I am going to get healthy/lose weight but I honestly don't know where to start. I am going to take a few of your tips and run with them!
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  • msapril0730msapril0730 member
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks for this post! I'm trying to lose 20 lbs, not just for the wedding but for my health in general. I'm a junk food junkie so I find that junk food and soda is my main problem. I drink water on a regular basis but I started substituting one of my sodas (I generally drink two a day) for a bottle of water. I use to go to the gym 3 times a week, but I got discouraged after I gained some weight back and stopped going. I plan to start working out again after the holidays, I would like to see a weight difference by the time my wedding rolls around! I've been trying to watch what I eat but its hard because I'm a stress eater!  
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  • tyboydtyboyd member
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    edited December 2011
    I just told FI today that January will start our healthy eating. I told him we're ridding the house of all junk foods and sodas. IDK how this is gonna work, but hey, I'ma try.
  • edited December 2011
    @ hisSparklett - What foods do you eat frequently that you know aren't good for you? Also, what are your drinking habits? Do you snack often? How many meals do you eat each day?

    @ msapril0730 - Good for you on substituting drinks for water! Sodas and sweets are my vice. Now, I can eat them in moderation since my whole caloric intake has gone down. You just have to figure out how your body responds to certain foods. Have you ever tried 100 calorie packs? Some of them are pretty good if for sweet substitutes and they are perfectly portioned. I like the Fudge Stripe and Chips Ahoy kinds.

    Oh...and fruit is a great substitute for sweets. They still aren't the best for you cause a lot of them are high in sugar, but they aren't processed so they are better for you. I did grapes, apples and watermelon mainly. My hair stylist is hard core and she only does berries and bananas.
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  • edited December 2011
    @ Tyboyd - Give it a shot...it won't hurt. Do y'all like fruit? Make snack packs and you're less likely to reach for junk...fruit baggies, carrot sticks, 100 calorie packs, Jello cups, granola, yogurt, etc.
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_weight-loss?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural Wedding BoardsForum:400Discussion:80d2c43a-b573-47d7-bb0d-0e868ec62cfcPost:34ca3e6c-86de-4fc0-a4f2-222e24492866">Re: Weight Loss...</a>:
    [QUOTE]@ hisSparklett - What foods do you eat frequently that you know aren't good for you? Also, what are your drinking habits? Do you snack often? How many meals do you eat each day? @ msapril0730 - Good for you on substituting drinks for water! Sodas and sweets are my vice. Now, I can eat them in moderation since my whole caloric intake has gone down. You just have to figure out how your body responds to certain foods.<strong> Have you ever tried 100 calorie packs? Some of them are pretty good if for sweet substitutes and they are perfectly portioned. I like the Fudge Stripe and Chips Ahoy kinds. Oh...and fruit is a great substitute for sweets. They still aren't the best for you cause a lot of them are high in sugar, but they aren't processed so they are better for you. I did grapes, apples and watermelon mainly. My hair stylist is hard core and she only does berries and bananas.
    </strong>Posted by eagles347[/QUOTE]

    I did the 100 calorie packs when I was dieting before, I like the grasshoppers. I'm actually a big fruit eater, I love almost all types of fruits. My doctor also told me to watch what fruits I eat because they are so high in sugar.
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  • edited December 2011
    um..almost everything that I eat isn't good for me lol. I have started drinking more water (I hate drinking water so this is big for me). Mostly, I drink juice and kool-aid. I only eat one real meal a day, I do  A LOT of snacking and eat tons of junk food...I know I am a mess all around.
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    edited December 2011
    Girl, we're gonna work it out. I saw some back rolls yesterday and nearly died! I want a shake weight and I have the P90X videos. And there's a track in our apts. So, we're gonna make something happen!
  • edited December 2011
    P90X turned me off at first. I didn't finish it although it was great for FI when he worked with it consistently. He did 8 weeks before stopping.

    @hisSparklett - Good job on water...maybe you could substitute your snacks and start doing some cardio as well as making sure your meals have twice as much protein as carbs? You might start to see progress on that alone...
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  • ellone400ellone400 member
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    edited December 2011
    @ those  are good ideas eagles  what help me was to cut my calories in half and im a salad and yogurt girl i cut soda  out completely because  i was a  soda adict and lost  10 pounds i absolutely hate  water  so im trying to drink that now. i went from a  sz 8 to a 4 so im happy where i am as  well !
  • edited December 2011
    I just started working out 2 weeks ago. I have only been on the elliptical so far. I work out 5 days a week for 45 minutes on my lunch. I don't know if this going to help. So, I will try your tips to see if that can help as well.
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  • edited December 2011
    @ bcbs - Couple that with eating right and it will definitely help! If you hit a plateau, just switch it up some to shock your body and make it work harder to adjust. Change the time or intensity or add something extra in the evenings. You can do it!

    @ ellone400 - Good for you! I went from a 10 to a 6 (I'm actually between a 4 and a 6, but don't like the fit of Juniors bottoms). I am going to stop here cause when I was a 4, I didn't have curves and I actually like them. I know it depends on the frame, of course so I'm sure 4 looks great on you!
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  • edited December 2011
    Thank you eagles for posting this!!!! I got to get to it! My problem isn't that I don't know what to do. It is just that I am lazy and don't want to do it! Sad, I know...
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  • edited December 2011
    Thanks for this. I have been on countless diets and I am telling myself that in Jan. I will stick to some sort of plan. I have a lot to lose!!
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    edited December 2011
    @eagles yeah i noticed that being a 4 so im trying to gain just a lttle back lol!
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    edited December 2011
    Hip-hop abs is working for me,  I started two weeks ago and already see results.
  • edited December 2011
    Thanks girl for the advice, I used all the same tips you gave about a year and a half ago and I lost 50 lbs. I've gained almost 20 back and yes I've been so depressed about it!! When I moved here to IL I didn't have anything to do, I was homesick and all I did was eat and not exercise. I worked out 3 times a week at Curves with one of my bffs and when I didnt go to Curves I walked. Since I moved here I didnt transfer my membership at Curves and the only exercise I get is walking my dogs. I plan to start my weight loss routine Jan 1!! I want to lose a total of 50-75 lbs. I even brought me a pair of motivational pants I plan to get in and the big day is also my motivation. My FI motivates me all the time to exercise because he stays fit (military man), but I'm so busy but I'm going make the time because losing the weight is so important to me One of my classmates has agreed to be my workout buddy so that inspires me a lot. I wish you all the best of luck in your weight lost journies!!
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  • sheshedukeshesheduke member
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    edited December 2011
    Great advice Ladies. I have been doing okay but I can do better. I have not gained any weight but I have not lost any either. I eat ok but I need to get back to exercising. This summer I have a personal trainer and it was great just a costly expense that I had to cut out.

    I am not really a snacker I love fruit and most vegetables even without ranch, I just have an addition to salty things. I have a sodium deficiency and anytime you take in sodium you put on water weight. I drink about 64 oz of water a day if not more since that is the only thing I drink all day but I need to get some things in check so I can lose about 10 good pounds and tone up like ASAP.

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