Friday Fun

Carla1019

Fess up ladies! Is there any little secrets you keep from FI/DH, or didn't tell until after months of dating?

Small things nothing major.

I'll fess up first, when FI and i first met I wasn't natural yet and he didn't know for about 6 months that my hair was a weave. LOL!

And he says he HATES weaves. Boy hush up, you don't even know the difference. LOL!!!

tcjames

LOL on the weave thing!!! I didn't tell him that I was also doing my homework on another guy at the time we had our phone relationship (DH & I talked on the phone for a full year before even thinking about dating). I was just making sure I was making the right decision & I choose very wisely !!  

Carla1019

LOL! Now a days you have to do your research before you get serious with someone. I asked FI if I could see his credit report and run a back ground check on him before we made our first year anniversary.

He knows I'm not crazy but if you are about to marry someone you need to know what you are tying your name too. He laughed at me and said, "Did I pass enough of your tests? LOL!

tcjames

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[QUOTE]LOL! Now a days you have to do your research before you get serious with someone. I asked FI if I could see his credit report and run a back ground check on him before we made our first year anniversary. He knows I'm not crazy but if you are about to marry someone you need to know what you are tying your name too. He laughed at me and said, "Did I pass enough of your tests? LOL!
Posted by Carla1019[/QUOTE]
 LOL! This is so true but now adays you have to take it a step further. The FI may be cool but the family...Girl You just don't know...lol Wish I did a background check on some of them!!! A friend of mine had her whole life destroyed by MIL who stole her ID, all the money she saved since she was 13 yrs, cleaned the son out and robbed their house.. What kind of mother does that?

kiwona

LOL! My FI thought I was lying about wearing weave I told him I wear them all the time....lol....I was just thinking to myself I'm not going to tell him no different....lol

sweetjess2011

Fi knows everything at least I think he does lol

ejagers

I think I've told him everything so far...

kwillia139

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_friday-fun?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural Wedding BoardsForum:400Discussion:8421846d-0191-4fd9-8aa9-65885512b743Post:b02203e0-4e4f-4685-a91c-903c9bd8283f">Re: Friday Fun</a>:
[QUOTE]LOL! Now a days you have to do your research before you get serious with someone. I asked FI if I could see his credit report and run a back ground check on him before we made our first year anniversary. He knows I'm not crazy but if you are about to marry someone you need to know what you are tying your name too. He laughed at me and said, "Did I pass enough of your tests? LOL!
Posted by Carla1019[/QUOTE]

I did exactly the same thing. We were talking about moving in together at that time so I needed to know everything! We are wise not crazy lol

lisa4766

Hmmm..  I was a troubled youth and did not do well in High School.  I eventually made a turn for the good.  Took my GED and then went to college.  I am not sure if he knows about the GED thing. 

pinkcottoncandy7

I have a big mouth and so I always say I'm not gonna tell him and I always do!