At first my FH was opposed to having a singer. He says he's a simple man and didn't want a long drawn out ceremony. After weeks of pouting +0 I've gotten my way and now with 3 weeks left Im scrabbling trying to figure out what song I want her to sing... I love When God gave me you on TD Jakes Sacred Songs album but I hate they verse when he talks about "creeping" not something I really want to discuss in the ceremony...then I thought about honoring our grandmothers whom can not attend by doing a mix of they're favorite gospel songs...but THOSE ARE DEPRESSING!! And now I need help!!