Soooo, I went to The Firetower venue that I was having the problem with and low and behold it was a HUGE I mean HUGE venue! What happened was the guys wife died in Nov and then his bro died in Dec soo needless to say he was completely out of it and is now in England with family until Friday, which I don't blame the guy after having back to back deaths in the family you need a break!!! So again the place is really big the only thing is there is no designated ceremony area and I would have to do a room flip during cocktail hour.....still deciding on that! But now I've found another place and we go in the morning to look at it, it's a bit farther down south than I wanted but it looks really nice from what I've seen and heard.....fingers crossed this may be the one!!!!