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My dress...

Hello Ladies,

So when i tried on my dress and purchased it, I LOVED it AND still do.....For some reason, i feel like i should have gone for more drama and am unsure. I have 4 months too go... PLEASE HELP ME STAY SANE.. PLEASE


Here is a link to my dress:   http://www.allurebridals.com/index.php?id=3&product_id=493


This is a pic of me in my dress



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Re: My dress...

  • edited December 2011
    Stay Sane!!! That dress is beautiful and if you loved it you knew it to buy it! Thank of all the other things you can do for drama like the make up and the flowers. Don't think so much about it.
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  • edited December 2011

    Beautiful dress!

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  • wallacjewallacje member
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    edited December 2011
    Awesome dress!!  I have 4 months too, staying sane is my challange. So much left to do.
  • edited December 2011

    You look beautiful in the dress!

  • WondersWonders member
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    edited December 2011
    You look gorgeous in that dress!!!!!! Keep it !
  • edited December 2011
    You look great.  I think you have to envision yourself in the whole package...veil, jewelry, hair, makeup, etc. and know that your accessories will add the drama that you're looking for.  You fell in love with the dress for a reason so just take a deep breath!  You'll be fine.
  • sadou02sadou02 member
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    edited December 2011
    Your dress is beautiful.  I felt the same way the first time I tried my dress but I was the idiot looking at the bridal books at the Sprin 2011 gowns.  Not a good idea and the worker at the bridal stor quickly pulled the books away.  Im less than 4 months away.

    Just keep looking at your dress and like JKeyes said you do have the option of embellishing in other areas.
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  • flawlessfayflawlessfay member
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks Ladies,

    my mom is buying my jewelery but i need a veil. I don't want to spend money adding embeslliments to the dress. Here are my shoes though. Hope the look is complete:






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  • TNMurrayTNMurray member
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    edited December 2011
    Imma beat you up...its purty and you got the shape to rock it.
  • flawlessfayflawlessfay member
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    edited December 2011
    Tiff, I know i know..... I can't help it girl..... I even went to try it on with the veil today. Their veils where i got my dress cost .....250..... Em HELL NO
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  • hotrocker2011hotrocker2011 member
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    edited December 2011
    oh wow...ya 250 is just crazy....but i love you dress and you look great in it... i say keep her the way she is.....
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  • edited December 2011
    You are looking so beautiful honey!! Love your dress!
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  • edited December 2011
    Are you going for a cathedral veil?  You can definitely find cheaper ones online.  Veils are grossly overpriced.
  • msapril0730msapril0730 member
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    edited December 2011
    It looks great on you! I vote for keep it also
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  • edited December 2011
    I think you look GREAT in that dress! Maybe if you are looking for a dramatic look, you can get that with a bold piece of jewelry. And once you try on your dress with all the different elements, Itll come together better.
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  • sheshedukeshesheduke member
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    edited December 2011
    Love the dress and it looks great on you. Dont stress over the dress there is plenty to stress about besides that. Then when you pair the dress with those shoes FIYAH. I will give you something to worry about and it certainly is not that beautiful dress!
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    edited December 2011
    That dress looks awesome on you!  There is a lot of "wow" factor in that dress as is.  Add your accessories and your wedding day glam and you are all set.  :)



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  • desi2002desi2002 member
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    edited December 2011
    Speaking from experience ( ive traded my dress in before for a different one), i think that if you need to make sure, then do it. but you look amazing in that dress. but sometimes you have to make sure.
    4 months to go is cutting it close though. you look good girl, but its about how YOU feel. hth
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  • happe2getherhappe2gether member
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    edited December 2011
    You look FABULOUS in the dress!!!
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    edited December 2011
    I'm going to play devil's advocate just cause I'm thinking of adding some embelishments to my dress. I was thinking of buying a swarovski cyrstal encrusted/applique belt to either wear or have it sewn on to my dress if possible. Maybe you can do the same??? Either way, the dress is gorgeous and you will be a pretty bride. This store in NYC has some gorgoeus ones, here is their website:

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