BRIDESMAID QUESTION?!?!

tirathemrs

So im planning on having 5 BM and 2 of them will be my Matron Of Honor and 1 will be my Maid Of Honor.....Now one chick thats my regular BM has been acting a lil funny with me since i told her i was engaged, she claims to be excited but nevertheless she has said certain things that has shown me that she isnt that happy about it.  But when another friend of ours got married she was all down and happy about it and just so ready to see her get married. Fast Forward to now....although i know its a lil early, i told her i wanted her and a few other friends to go with me to a bridal show on Sunday, mind you i had told her this in advance so she can clear her schedule and here i go texting them to remind them like hey dont forget Bridal Show on Sunday, she texts back she cant go because shes going to the boat show <PAUSE> WHAT? smh i just text back REALLY??

So now im wondering should i just dont worry about this now because i am a long ways away or should i look at this as a warning and move on with another friend???

TL25

Keep her for now. She may just feel like your doing too much this early in the game and when time begins to creep up she'll get with the program.

Dannitra01

Don't kick her to the curb just yet. Even though she's acting a bit shady, she may be going through something personal that she may not want to tell you about. Sit back and see how things play out.

nursing2u

I agree.. it's soooo early... Dont do something in haste that will mess up your friendship..

Not everyone will be able to make all your events... and life does still go on for everyone.. even us...lol

Enjoy your Bridal show

raven&mark

I agree with pp but I also feel where you are coming freom. I had the same thing happen to me with one of my girls. I gave her chance after chance and when all said and done, she is no longer part of my wedding party. But, like pp said, since you are so far out dont let her go just yet. Let things blow over for now and as you get closer to your date if she's still acting like that then you can decide on what you want to do with her. Hope this helps and good luck!