20pearls16.....what happened at the graduation?????

yogiebhill

What did the WASBEND do now?

keyaira04

Yes, do tell!

M1ssJ

*gets popcorn*

MissusD1116

Uh oh!

20pearls16

Welllll.... This is long so bear with me. Halos off for this one ladies. My daughter graduated from the 8th grade yay! My FI the kids and I got to the graduation early because my daughter had to be there early plus we wanted a good seat. I have a thing about being on time. Anyway, we sat down and I had also saved 2 seats for my grandparents. Another family sat in our row so there was one seat between our family and there family. No problem, everybody is set. The next thing I know my 20 year old sees and FLAGS down wasband's mom and aunt and brings them to the front where we were. I look at FI and he looks at me and we think ok what the hell?!They ask if there are any seats in our row and I say there is one seat DOWN there (the one between us and the other family. My 20 year old says she will put my step daughter on her lap so there would be two seats for them.  WTH!!! So I give her the death stare and they proceed to move into the row. Now you know hwere this is going!

My ex mother in law, is standing in the row of course looking for the Wasband stating he is the father he should have the seat upfront. WHAT SEAT BEYOCH! THERE IS NO SEAT. FI finally comes in and walks towards our row. FI is sitting on the end  and I am next to him so he has to pass us to get into the row. He speaks and proceeds into the row. Now I am steaming ! Where in the hell is he going to sit and hell no you cannot have my grandparent's seats! There is some back and forth down where they are about 6 seats in. Mind you my daughter goes to a predomiately white school so all the white folks are wondering what was going on. Then the wasband says he needs a seat for his girlfriend. I FRIKKIN LOST IT! I got up went down to where they were and told him if he wanted seats for him and his family then his ass should have gotten there early like we did. Sit the hell down or move it to the back. Of course the folks behind me were looking like (DAMN SIS)! At this point I was pissed, my FI was pissed and ready to beat his ass (he don't like no one messing with his baby). The Wasband of course makes a fuss and sends my son (who came with me by the way) in the back with his mother so his girlfriend could have a seat. The girlfriend NEVER came until it was over. So there sat the empty seat.  Of course he ruined my day and my 20 year old felt so bad for even flagging them down in the first place. I often wonder how in the hell I married him in the first place. 18 years of my life with that a** hole FOH!!!!

MissusD1116

Dannnnggggg! LOL! That is a hot mess! Why do they always gotta make a scene! We know you are the dad, ok? They always gotta show out when another man steps in, why lord, why?? I was reading and was like...."she is gonna blow her crop cut in a minute!" LOL!

CaseynMike

OH wow what a mess!!

yogiebhill

DAMN, DAMN, DAMN!   I just don't know what to say. Did your 8th grader witness any of this?

20pearls16

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_20pearls16what-happened-at-the-graduation?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural Wedding BoardsForum:400Discussion:a3973751-a85c-4910-92ef-1d99089cbaeePost:422bdee1-9366-4498-89fe-afb9250c1baf">Re: 20pearls16.....what happened at the graduation?????</a>:
[QUOTE]DAMN, DAMN, DAMN!   I just don't know what to say. Did your 8th grader witness any of this?
Posted by yogiebhill[/QUOTE]

Nope she had no clue, but the other 3 did. My 20 year old felt like crap. She is such the politically correct one. She wants to please everyone. She knows better.

happe2gether

Wow Sis!! I feel your pain for you and yeah I was wondering when you were going to blow! But those men just push the buttons too far!! Sorry this had to happen.  He just sounds so immature and I am happy for you that you now have a partner worthy of your time. 

mejai1

I am so sorry that this had to happen. Dang empty seat. Shows how much SHE cares... I can't believe he sent his own baby (your 20 year old) to the back when she's at her OWN SISTER'S graduation in favor of a no-show girlfriend. Dayum!

yogiebhill

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_20pearls16what-happened-at-the-graduation?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural Wedding BoardsForum:400Discussion:a3973751-a85c-4910-92ef-1d99089cbaeePost:8341a863-81ff-4ba5-8d40-22cd3ec61b4d">Re: 20pearls16.....what happened at the graduation?????</a>:
[QUOTE]I am so sorry that this had to happen. Dang empty seat. Shows how much SHE cares... I can't believe he sent his own baby (your 20 year old) to the back when she's at her OWN SISTER'S graduation in favor of a no-show girlfriend. Dayum!
Posted by mejai1[/QUOTE]

THIS!!!!!