REALLY??????

simbidi

Nothing more needs to be said.  I am just blown!

The invitee's name has been redacted to protect the ignorant.

shesheduke

OMG Really that is crazy I tell you some people gosh some people. I feel you 100%. I just got 6 additional RSVPs int he mail today and the deadline was 8.10.11 Hmmmmm No you will not be in attendance sorry boo boo! Tell Randy and Terry to kick rocks too!

brittanyjterrell

O.M.G !

mahoganieyes

Do you want me to cut them for you?? I'll pull my blade out.....=)

island07b2b

LOL!  Now that is some kind of bold.   Woosah.  

lil01

WOW!!! I would put "Return to sender" right on the envelope. Smh.....

LSAS

Say what now

jmp0930

People are ridiculous!!

msapril0730

People are a trip! I had a few of those myself, one person added 7 people to her 2 person rsvp

Ky925

Wow!!  People are very bold these days....idk what runs through their minds!!  lol @ "return to sender"...I was falling out

vanna0092

WOW!!! is all I can say

Gift928

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[QUOTE]WOW!!! I would put<strong> "Return to sender</strong>" right on the envelope. Smh.....
Posted by lil01[/QUOTE]

LMAOOO!!!

But damn, they got some nerve!

hatroopes

I cant...!!!

simbidi

I wish I could return it.  This is FI's aunt.  She added her son's.... smh

[Deleted User]

That is too much.  Some people have some nerve.

tyboyd

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[QUOTE]I wish I could return it.  This is FI's aunt.  She added her son's.... smh
Posted by simbidi[/QUOTE]

<div>Is it the one you told me about?! lol</div>

simbidi

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: REALLY?????? : Is it the one you told me about?! lol
Posted by tyboyd[/QUOTE]

<div>
</div><div>Probably.... we didn't invite them becuase they are a menace to society.... sigh</div>

BrideofTonyP

Wow! And she didn't even have the decency to write it in her "good" handwriting! 

LOL @ Return to Sender

JloveB

oh ...I had some one put myself and guest in the  M_____ section of the reply card as if I knew who was coming.. shm, some people just don't have all the lights on upstairs in those brains of theirs.

Ksk2012

I love the fact that they used what looks like a sharpie!! LOVE it.. Family is just too much!

PrettyCW5

o_O wow!!!

MrsBoss2012

OMG how do you handle this? What do you do? See I'm not ready especially if its coming from HIS side!

Dancerppf

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: REALLY?????? : Probably.... we didn't invite them becuase they are a menace to society.... sigh
Posted by simbidi[/QUOTE]

<div>LMAO!!!!!!</div><div>
</div><div>Now ladies we can't complain then accomodate the stupidity. Each one, teach one. Even if you're going to allow her to do that mess kindly call her and state that she can't add people to a RSVP. If she knows others that would like to attend she can notify you and you will try to accomodate based on your RSVP's (how many people decline). Now she'll know not to do that in the future. Let's make a pact to do this!</div>

ejagers

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: REALLY?????? : LMAO!!!!!! Now ladies we can't complain then accomodate the stupidity. Each one, teach one. Even if you're going to allow her to do that mess kindly call her and state that she can't add people to a RSVP. If she knows others that would like to attend she can notify you and you will try to accomodate based on your RSVP's (how many people decline). Now she'll know not to do that in the future.<strong> Let's make a pact to do this!
</strong>Posted by Dancerppf[/QUOTE]

LMBO @ Menace to society

I'm in!  I will kindly inform each person who croses out the number of seats I have reserved for them on the RSVP and inserts their own number.  I think I'll even put a nice little message on the RSVP page on our website, too.

Oh LAWD!  I can't believe she did that.  Maybe she doesn't know. . .

faithlady

woooo yall scaring me with these RSVP nightmares lol

mikimoto6

I agree with DancerPPF. Our silence to the offending guest equals our consent to their foolishness.  It may be better for your FI to address the issue since she is related to him.  If you don't nip it in the bud now, word will spread like wildfire that it is okay to add people and others will follow suit.   

hatroopes

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: REALLY?????? : LMAO!!!!!! Now ladies we can't complain then accomodate the stupidity. Each one, teach one. Even if you're going to allow her to do that mess kindly call her and state that she can't add people to a RSVP. If she knows others that would like to attend she can notify you and you will try to accomodate based on your RSVP's (how many people decline). Now she'll know not to do that in the future. Let's make a pact to do this!
Posted by Dancerppf[/QUOTE]

<div>I totally agree with this! You have to start somewhere - this is probably not the first time she did this and probably won't be the last. Save the next bride some headache lol</div><div>
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simbidi

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: REALLY?????? : LMAO!!!!!! Now ladies we can't complain then accomodate the stupidity. Each one, teach one. Even if you're going to allow her to do that mess kindly call her and state that she can't add people to a RSVP. If she knows others that would like to attend she can notify you and you will try to accomodate based on your RSVP's (how many people decline). Now she'll know not to do that in the future. Let's make a pact to do this!
Posted by Dancerppf[/QUOTE]

<div>OMG, I wish it was this easy.  I did decline another guest (FI's cousin's fiancee) who wanted to bring her mother and 2 yr old daughter.  But, in this case FI decided to give in.  These two were originally on the guest list, then got locked up..... so we took them off not expecting them to be "available."  Well, they're out and their mother was offended becuase they did not get an invite.  I never updated the list and really didn't want to anyway.</div><div>
</div><div>The catch is that this aunt and another are FI's mother's sisters (MIL is deceased).  These two aunts are taking the place of honor for FI's mom.  The other sister's son is our BM.  So, this sister got her feels all hurt because her son'e weren't invited at all. They are very competitive with each other, love each other, but bicker like sisters do)  *sigh*  What a mess.  FI wanted to avoid the drama.  He called her (from Kuwait) to explain why the exception was being made.... NO ONE ELSE GETS THIS PRIVILEGE!!!  I just wished she had called or asked before sending the card back like this!!  Wooooo Saaaaahhh!!</div><div>
</div><div>Ready for it to be over!</div>

Carla1019

I am so glad that my guests have to RSVP via my website. They can not add extra people. I'm sure I will get a few phone calls asking to bring others and the answer will be NO. I'm not putting up with anyone's foolishness.

slimice

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: REALLY?????? : LMAO!!!!!! Now ladies we can't complain then accomodate the stupidity. Each one, teach one. Even if you're going to allow her to do that mess kindly call her and state that she can't add people to a RSVP. If she knows others that would like to attend she can notify you and you will try to accomodate based on your RSVP's (how many people decline). Now she'll know not to do that in the future. Let's make a pact to do this!
Posted by Dancerppf[/QUOTE]

I agree. You have to let them know. For my wedding I was accomdating hubby's great aunt and her nurse. When we received the RSVP there was 14 names on it. The nurse talking about she will be on vacation at that time so she, her children and their dates are coming. They thought that we was going to pay for hotels rooms and transportation since we was paying for his great aunt and the nurse.

simbidi

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: REALLY?????? : I agree. You have to let them know. For my wedding I was accomdating hubby's great aunt and her nurse. When we received the RSVP there was 14 names on it. The nurse talking about she will be on vacation at that time so she, her children and their dates are coming. <strong>They thought that we was going to pay for hotels rooms and transportation since we was paying for his great aunt and the nurse.</strong>
Posted by slimice[/QUOTE]

<div>Now THAT is good and crazy!!!!</div>