Ordering extras: semivent and Advice needed

M1ssJ

So... Our videos and pictures are about to be distributed. I am making a photobin  photobook for his mom and I got her a canvas of their dance togeher.

My mom paid for the photog, viedog, RD, and chair rentals. Naturally I thought it fair that she get the extra copy of the Wedding DVD and the fancy photo album. Two aunts each contributed to the wedding flowers and rentals. They also get photobook albums.

My mom is insisting I order a copy of the DVD for his mom too and I refuse. She contributed nothing and I think the hankie, shirt, photobook, and canvas are enough. I told my mom if she wants anything extra she can order it herself.

Am I wrong?

rowenac82

Nope (drops mic and exits stage left)

keyaira04

Not at all.

Dannitra01

hell no

TL25

I'm with Ro. No with no extra explanation.

ladycane015

agree w/ all pp!!! Nope you're not wrong at all... I would give her the info needed to place any additional orders she'd like lol

M1ssJ

see thank you lol, My mom started quoting Bible verses like I was being a horrible mean person

keyaira04

I see were mom is coming from, but you have already given a gift to the lady. That was all that was required and you did that. Sometimes, they go too far with that "treat us equal" stuff..

thedivav

Nerp your not wrong

tirathemrs

And ill add to the thread that you are no where near wrong...no need in giving something extra you gave her nice gifts and that is enough

gnc0988

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_ordering-extras-semivent-and-advice-needed?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:400Discussion:ab1fb406-9bea-4803-abc5-d0c63445d822Post:ebfa743e-9c6a-4630-a39b-de54c354450c">Re: Ordering extras: semivent and Advice needed</a>:
[QUOTE]see thank you lol, <strong>My mom started quoting Bible verses like I was being a horrible mean person</strong>
Posted by M1ssJ[/QUOTE]


mom....calm down.

M1ssJ

Lol I luv yall. I ended the convo with mom and forwarded MIL the ordering information.