I recently e-mailed 6 out of my 7 BM's their budgets for the wedding. All 6 responded immediately that they were excited and loved the dress and budget. I could not send it to one BM because I did not have her email address, after receiving it, I then sent it to her 1st thing Mon morning. Now for a little background, the problem with this particular BM is that I originally did not want her in the wedding (she is the girlfriend/baby mama of FI's older brother) & I just did not feel as though she was close enough to me to be a part of my WP, and I explained this to FMIL. FMIL began to tell me that this particular BM's feelings would be hurt if she wasn't included. I told FMIL that I apologize and was firm in my decision. Lo and behold, I find out FMIL went behind my back and told her that she was a BM, so of course that put me in a awkward situation. After prayer and debating w/ FI about this for months, I decided that I didn't want the drama so we decided to just keep her in.
Anyway, I have not heard back from her (after she bugged me all Saturday). I sent her a message on FB letting her know it was sent so she is aware that it is there. I even sent a message that I needed to know if the price and dress were okay in order to confirm with the dress shop before I have my girls go get fitted in case I need to find another dress. I informed FI (since this is HIS ppl) about the situation. He told me to let her know again, and if she doesn't get back with me then keep it moving without her. As easy as this sounds, yes, I could definitely do this, but I don't know if I want to go the extra mile for her. Anyway opinions needed! Thanks for letting me vent.