Tell it All Thursday

TysWife2Be

If you could choose on person to NOT invite to the wedding, who would it be and why?

mandikaykay

Well, in reality we haven't decided if we are inviting my mother's youngest sister to the wedding or not.  She's crazy and had a serious hand in the rapid decline of my granmother's health just before her death a few months back.  I haven't seen her since the day of the funeral.  I don't have a desire to see her.  And I don't think I want to see her on my wedding day.  So, yep, that's my person.  Also, she might attempt to sabotage the whole thing because she's just that crazy jealous of my mom (her own sister).  And of course, that trickles down to me, because I'm her daughter.  Very sick individual.  But the saddest part is I really want her 11 year old daughter to come...I feel so sorry for my little cousin.  Her mother is keeping her away from us to "punish" the rest of the family.

rodeo417

I would love not to invite my older brother and my FI's sister. I might end up in jail due to these two. FI's sister is a true drama queen. She had the nerve to call the cops on him one night (and scratch up her face) and say he attacked her. We don't speak at all. In my eyes, she is a waste of a sperm and egg cell. FI warned her that she is on the "hit list" and better behave or she will not be invited to the wedding.

My brother is definately not invited to the wedding. I have already told my folks that and I wont budge. We haven't spoken in 3 years and I am actually glad. He lives on negative energy and I want a drama free life. Also he owes me money, stole from my dad and then had the nerve to put my name out in the street..

Yeppers these two are NOT invited.

berrytr

I would uninvite two of my FI's brothers.  They are loud and obnoxious.  I really don't like being around them but I tolerate them b/c I have to.

lakishap

If it's up to me FI's cousin will not get invited.  He's loud, obnoxious and a pathological lier.  Not mention he has called my phone and discrespected me & then gave me a bull-ish apology and he owes my dad money and doesn't even have the decensy to call him and let him know he hasn't forgotten that he owes him.  Did I mention he only calls FI when he needs money or a ride somewhere.  Uugh my blood pressure goes up just thinking about his ignorant behind!!

jwilk002

My cousin's husband. My cousin is a bridesmaid....I used to live with them in grad school, hence the reason I would NOT want to invite him. He has permanent gold fronts, drinks entirely too much, and lives off my aunt (my cousin's mom)....I do fully intend to give the bartenders pictures of him and let them know to RESTRICT him.....case in point....he got drunk on Thanksgiving and decided he wanted to leave the house (while our WHOLE family was there) and go to the strip club...so guess what...he did. UGHHHHHH

kristi0618

I would not invite my FI half brother and cousin. First of all the half brother at my FI bro bday party got mad and broke somebody's window out their car. Now look the venue has a whole bunch of windows, and I don't want him to get tempted. My Fi cousin is just loud and rude. Well I just cant stand his butt. I already to FI that his half bro wont be getting an invite. As for his cousin I'm going to deal with him... Pray for me....

tamtam7

It would be my boss.  I really don't have the capacity to invite a whole lot of people and she is not exactly someone that I'm necessarily cool with.  I just feel obligated to invite her because she will act like a toddler if I don't.

ladylum

It would be half sister and stepmother (well she's not really my stepmother because my dad's been deceased for 10 years . .) but these two can hold a grudge longer than anyone I know. I love my half sister but I was very disappointed and angry that after she BLEW a 4 yr scholarship she came back home with no degree  and started dating some thug. I can understand why she broke up with her former boyfriend but girl you are supposed to upgrade! She also got pregnant with this guy and is no longer with him. She's 25 and at her age, I had my child but I was living on my own, had a decent paying job and could do for myself. I wanted her to do better than I did. I said something inappropriate and our older sister tried to be peacemaker but she's not having it. This was almost 1 and a half and we still don't really speak. I have put out the olive branch but getting nothing. Her mother just makes me mad asking why I don't call her "Miss _____" anymore. I told her I'm grown now and I did that as a means of respect since she is my elder and I was younger. She didn't like my answer. I haven't spoken to either of them since but they are invited to the baby shower and wedding. If I have drama, I will not hesitate to stop it.