I am so confused on what time I want my wedding to start. I am thinking either 4 or 5 pm. I want a nice evening feel at the church and we also want to have people party all night. Starting at 5. I think 7:30-8 is late for dinner although there will be food and drinks at the cocktail hour. Then should we get all the "formalities" out of the way in the beginning in case people want to leave ( cake cutting, toast, 1st dance) I need help lol