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Frustrated!!!

We are getting married in four month!! 4 MONTHS!!! And I still don't have a venue because my FI is being wishy washy!! Because of our budget, we are getting married at a banquet hall.  I want to reserve it on Friday, he wants me to wait to book! We can't move forward with anything until we book a venue.... I can't book the venue until I get the go ahead from him!!! I am so frustrated right now I could cry. It seems like everytime I move forward a bit, things end up back where they were.... At this rate instead of getting fitted for a wedding dress, I am going to get fitted for a straight jacket!! All he is seeing is dollar signs, he wants to do this as inexpensive as possible, I get that, but if we go anymore inexpensive we are going to be getting married in a cardboard box! I found a hall, and I really think that once I get to go inside to see it on Friday, I will really like it. I am doing as much planning as I possibly can with out a venue or an actual set date.  But right now, I am just loosing my momentum.

Sorry this is so long but I just really needed to vent!

Thanks for the ears Ladies!
Have a good night!!!
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Re: Frustrated!!!

  • mgoss228mgoss228 member
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    edited December 2011
    Sorry that you are going through this so close to the wedding.  Does your FI understand how much pressure/stress the situation is putting you under?  I hope you two can figure everything out ASAP!
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  • edited December 2011
    That's horrible that you are down to the wire and being made to wait. Just try and be patient and it will all work itself out. Do you need any budget venue ideas? Depending on your budget I might be able to help since I to was on a small budget for my venue.
  • tmhildebrandtmhildebrand member
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    edited December 2011

    Feeling better about things today. FI and I have talked things through and we will just keep on trekkin forward. Thanks for the ears.... I appreciate it all... I don't really think I need any help just yet.... but if I do I will definitely ask!! I don't know what I would do with out this board!! Thanks again Ladies!!!

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