FI Pissed me off today!!!!

sweets18

He was going through the pictures on my computer while I was gone and he happened to stumble across a picture of me in my dress that I accidentally forgot to delete. He claims that he didn't click on it or see to much of it but I completely flipped out!!! I was so upset! I feel like its not special anymore and I may as well just walk around the street with it on... Am I overreacting? Has this happened to anyone before? I really want to burn it and start fresh but with only three weeks to the wedding there is no way that could happen... 

cyndon

i wouldnt be to upset about it.  Nothing will compare to when he sees you during your first look (if you are doing one) or when he first lays eyes on you coming down the aisle.

DiamondsGyrl

Dont betoo upset...He's just as excited andanxious as you are......although
I understand wanting to "suprise" him....Pictures do not compare to your big day!!

sweets18

Thank you ladies! I was about to seriously hurt him!

YasJas2011

Being that he is a man.... LOL!! He will not remember the image! So it is so okay. He will still see you in your dress and either faint or cry on the wedding day. :-) Can't wait to see pictures! Our day is coming up so soon.

sweets18

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[QUOTE]Being that he is a man.... LOL!! He will not remember the image! So it is so okay. He will still see you in your dress and either faint or cry on the wedding day. :-) Can't wait to see pictures! Our day is coming up so soon.
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Thank you girl! Cause he thought I was psycho yesterday when he told me... And YES!!!! Our days are coming up so fast!!!! I feel like I have so much to do! But I am happy and extremely blessed!

PB-Bride2010

Guys are not into details....he will not remember plus the model want compare to how fabulous you'll be looking! I'm sure he will stay away from your computer nowon....LOL for humor!!! :-)))

eagles347

Don't sweat it, honey. Although I know I would have had the same reaction and would be freaking out if it happened to me...I know with every thing in me that your FI won't remember the details of your dress and if some weird stroke of deja vu occurs and he remembers the details, that picture still won't compare to what he sees when he gets his first look at you in your dress! Rock it with pride, girl...no burning dresses over here!