My mother has alzheimer's, and I want her at my wedding and have made plans for her to attend, ( I hired a nurse). My father and some siblings have said I shoouldn't try to have my mom at the wedding but my GOD she my mother I couldn't think of her not being there even though she don't know who I am are what is going on. It's not like I can light a candle for her she not deceased. The thought of her not being there totally breaks my heart. However, today when I visited her at the nursing home I sorta loss hope.
Am I being selfish for wanting her present at my wedding and what would you do ????/