feeling kinda sucky

joneka

so well be married 4 weeks on saturday....my patience is starting to wane and this sucky feeling is growing each day...I am starting to feel cheated a little bit....I feel like I missed a lot because I was in the bridal suite and of course walked in last..the day was a whorlwind..I didnt get to see Robert, my mom, my girls walk in or enjoy the music I so carefully picked out...I dont remember his face when I walked in...so Ive been waiting with great anticipation for the professional pics and the video.....I only recieved  about five pics from two family members cell phones..which were nice and had tided me over..but right now I feel so disconnected...ugh..I contacted the photog and hes still not done..but part of that is because he had other shoots like graduations and some baby bump sessions..I try to understand but really I want to freakin yell....I want my Photos..but I cant be over the top because he a great photog and have used him in the past and expect to use him in the future..

M1ssJ

Awww hun Im sorry! I wish things were moving faster for you. Did you enjoy the day? Focus on enjoying being married and having husband all to yourself. remember that was the goal of the day and you got the greatest blessing of all! 

*hugs*

msbdumas

Aww sweetie..it will be ok ! not laughing but lol..Im sure your pics/video will be ready soon just be a little more patient. What can you do to keep busy and your mind on other things til you get them ? 

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saharnshard

I know how you feel I've been married for 7 weeks, and I just got back most of my photos from my photog. Try not to stress out. Do you think you could ask your photog for a sneak peek? I think that's a reasonable request.

Carla1019

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Posted by msbdumas[/QUOTE]

This! What is ypur next big project! Keep busy and your pictures / video will be ready in no time.

MissusD1116

It's coming sissy...patience is a virtue! I'm sure they will be magical!

pearls687

Try to look at the bright side:  between the photos and the video, you will get to see everything that happened!  We decided to forego the videographer and regretted it almost immediately.  At the end of it all, on the ride to the hotel we realized that we didn't get to see much of what took place.  I spent a good bit of the honeymoon thinking about what photos I didn't get but I felt soooooo much better when I received the surprise sneak peek from the photographers a couple of days later.  They were awesome!  I go pick up the finished images this Friday and I can't wait, but I do wish there was a video on the way. 

So try to find something else to think about and before you know it, you'll be able to re-live your day in pictures AND video!  {{hugs}}

mejai1

Awww.... hugs. The wait will make it all that much better.... 

staten2012

Sorry for your wait...I know it feels like forever!
I agree...maybe ask nice for a sneak peak...at least a few shots to tide you over?

joneka

Yes absolutely..we definitely enjoyed our day...but it feels like an incomplete puzzle..like bits and pieces...


our next project is baby making..so definitely dont want to put all focus on that and began stressing..this is supposed to be the easy breezy part..

The photog gave us a sneek peek at week 2..it was only like 4-5 pics..beautiful!! but I guess the excitement of those have worn off..lol..he contacted me today in reference to the music we wanted on the video..so hopefully soon

MrsJenrette

I understand EXACTLY how you feel!..

We haven't gotten our pictures or our video back as of yet.. but I know my photographer had a family emergency and had to go take care of it. The videographer though.. I feel is just putting me on the back burner... It's kinda getting on my nerves.. but I'm trying my best to keep patient..

I agree with PP's.. try to find something else to occupy your time.. so that you don't think about it anymore... We've been married for a little over 2 months... and it does get hard.. but I always think about how we're going to feel viewing our day for the first time from our guests eyes.. and it does help..