Fiance's surprise party went welll. I had him come to my moms house after work and of coarse.....smh.... people on CP time, he got there before the guests. He met his one Indian frined (also late) walking up my driveway....smh. Everyone trickled in bit by bit. The yeard looked beautiful.. I put up a tent with lights and candles on the tables, some dancing and SPADES playing on the deck. He had a great time. All though the "surprise" moment was a miss he was still surprised to see so many of his friends (some he hadnt seen in months) turn out.
The FAMILIA de fiance:
Well ladies, good and bad.......
As many of you know, the mom and his matriarch aunt arent big fans of me. But out of the woodworks are popping up other family members that are being kind, welcoming, and accomodating. Sending well wishes for the wedding and wanting to meet me. So I feel good
a lil background : Also, He had been going through alot of spiritual issues with us getting married. About the fact that I was married. At one point he even stated he wasnt sure that he'd be happy on our wedding day because he knew according to the bible our mariage was a sin......
So his Aunty evil, sent me a horrible horrible letter in the mail last week. FI gave her an invite and she mailed it back with this letter that I will paraphrase. She says she would not attend and support "such an aggregous act" She goes on and refers to me as a gold digger who was up to no good and was just using him to take care of myself and my "two black boys".....yes ladies she said that. And yes, she is black. She goes on to talk about my other (who she has NEVER MET) and how we are inconsiderate to be planning a wedding while FI's mom is dying, She goes on to say I should not visit her sister nor call her....his mom and I have been developing a phone relationship since my last post about it and we are going to see her this weekend. She says that the ENTIRE FAMILY is mourning our "so-called marriage" ... Ive been getting congrats afrom all over and even spoke to another aunt in Jamaica last night who is considering flying up for the wedding. FI and I are trying to plan a trip to Jamaica to meet the rest of his fam down there and mine to.
WELL THE DEVIL IS A LIAR LADIES!!!
Everything he means for evil, God will turn to good for all that trust and believe in him.
I prayed over this letter and what to do with it. God said "do nothing". Although FI wanted to approach her about it (AND SO DID I) I begged him to follow what God had told me in prayer. Although I had shared it with my mom and 2 besties I stopped there and do not intend on using it for any type of revenge. SINCE THEN, FI has been extra loving and caring to me and talking all about how he cant wait for me to be his bride... I think the letter made him see that all that pressure about "God's law" was rooted in something un-Christian. My baby and I have never been closer. And as the date approaches, the very thing made in effort to tear us apart has grown us closer
PRAISE THE ALMIGHTY!
