I only have one BM and that is my MOH. My wedding is on the beach and the decorations are white ribbons and flowers on tiki torches lining the aisle I will walk down. My flowers will be orange, fushia, green, etc. and I told my MOH to buy any dress she wants in orange or coral. She found a dress and told me the website to go to and I saw that the dress came in raspberry (purple is her favorite color) so I told her to order the raspyberry instead of the coral and she said no, it's not about me (meaning her)!!!! I told her I would add the color into my flowers but she refused...LOVE HER!!! no drama