It took a while for us to be ok with having a registry and mostly only after people told us 1) charity registries are rude somehow and 2) people will buy us things anyway (like ugly crystal chickens) that we don't want and might as well control what we get to what we want.
Then we got bombarded with people (both invited and not invited to our pretty pretty princess day), asking for our registry info and one woman (who has never been on the guest list and even more so now is not) even had the gall to tell my mom (before we decided to just suck it up and have one), that we were being rude and snobby by not having a registry.
That said, we've gone to town on the registry, especially with completion bonuses and all that and we have a few big ticket items on there. (Yes, this post is totally because of those hot topics listed below). We registered for a full set of all-clad and le creuset pans, mostly cause once the wedding is over, I am looking forward to the 10-15% off or whatever. I think the average cost of items on our registry is closer to 75 than 25, but we have a lot of items under 40 too.
What do you guys think about big ticket items on registries?
And what would your idea of big ticket be, monetarily and item-wise? (For us, big ticket is the le creuset and all-clad pots and pans sets.)
Would it bother you to see those kinds of items on anyone's registry? And does the kind of wedding it is make any difference as to your thoughts in regards to someone's registry? (I am totally pillaging these questions from that post into the safety of our local board.)