ok, long story:
another one of my bridesmaids is out. my matron and maid of honor have been working together with my mom to plan my bridal shower and bachelorette and they have not heard from any of the other 4 girls in my party. so last night, my mom emailed all the girls basically telling them to make sure they get in contact with my MOHs and make sure they get to the bridal salon for deposits and measurements. suddenly, one of my bridesmaids (and good friend) responds to my mom saying that she had held money back for the wedding but "didn't hear anything back" so she started pinching. now, i'm pissed because i'm all about planning and sticking to strict deadlines, so from MARCH i'd been trying to get the girls together to shop for dresses but NO ONE EVER HAD TIME. so with that, i went out and found the dress with my maid of honor (in December). suddenly, the bridesmaid in question changes her response from having to pinch from the money meant for bridesmaid function to saying she was going to contact my MOH after she tells me she will no longer be a part of my wedding party!!!!
i just don't understand why out of nowhere these girls are finding the most asinine "reasons" to drop out of my party. i previously lost one because she "didn't feel like she fit in with my group of friends" and another just hasn't even ACKNOWLEDGED me or my wedding plans since agreeing to be a part of my wedding party. now, this. and she hasn't even called me, text, email, fb, twitter, nada.
i am sick to my stomach behind this.
...and then there were 5