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Can I put my hands around my FMIL's neck now? (rant)

Okay so everything was fine with my FMIL and al after the whole letter from my FI then she and I had a talk.
Well she has pissed me off. My FI is sick and has a small infection thats not major and he got it taken care of right away. His parents called and he mentioned to them that he just got home from the doctor and he told them what was wrong. His mom then says, "yeah you get all the wierd stuff when SHE is around." and of course SHE is refering to me.
She is referring to when I was here before and when I left he started breaking out in ezema rashes. She is saying that its my fault because I have psoriasis and my entire body most of the time is covered in similar rashes. First off psoriasis is not contagious due to the fact that is is a auto-immune disorder that you are born with and did not catch from anyone else. He got the ezema because of all the stress he was going through dealing with his horrible mother.

The problem that he has now is caused by his own body chemistry and in fact it is not uncommon and anyone can get it. She is making stupid assumptions that I am the one passing things around. She has to always find something to say about me when she gets the chance and right now I am in the most pissed off mood, I can't even sleep and I have a huge headache. Wonderfully psoriasis reacts to your mood and as soon as I got pissed off my skin started to breakout. This woman drives me crazy. When I said I was pissed my FI then says to me that its his fault and i said "No it's not your fault that your mom is an &itch."

Okay rant over... guess i will play online games to calm my nerves.
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Re: Can I put my hands around my FMIL's neck now? (rant)

  • TysWife2BeTysWife2Be member
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    edited December 2011
    IGNORE HER!

    This lady has been causing you stress and will CONTINUE...no matter what you say or do...

    So instead of you stressing out and in the end breaking out, etc, IGNORE HER!

    Hell, she is working MY damn nerves!
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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_can-put-hands-around-fmils-neck-now-rant?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural Wedding BoardsForum:400Discussion:f9e69da7-38f7-4496-9f37-e245ade78feePost:36bb9ff2-4f54-4287-b69e-d18c404a64a9">Re: Can I put my hands around my FMIL's neck now? (rant)</a>:
    [QUOTE]IGNORE HER! This lady has been causing you stress and will CONTINUE...no matter what you say or do... So instead of you stressing out and in the end breaking out, etc, IGNORE HER! Hell, she is working MY damn nerves!
    Posted by TysWife2Be[/QUOTE]

    Ditto this...ALL OF THIS!
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  • edited December 2011

    TAKE EVERYTHING THIS WOMAN SAYS AND IMMEDIATELY DELETE FROM YOUR MEMORY BANK.

    She is not worth you getting yourself upset, breaking out, etc. As your wedding planning continues you will have other things on your mind, her rude and idiotic comments are not needed. I am with the pp'rs, ignore her, TOTALLY. Some In-laws, wow.....

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  • edited December 2011
    I believe her original question was... can she choke her now...answer: YES. She is so rude!  Try to let it go please.
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    Just my two cents lol! Ummmmmmmm yeah choke her azz. It can be hard to ignore when you have a nosey azz mother in law to deal with. If she had any sense at all she would know the two are not contagious, they are skin rashes or disorders if you will. I have exczema myself trust me I know. I would print out what they are send them her way so she can become educated. Knowledge is power lol!!!

    Im so bad lol!

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  • edited December 2011
    UNBELIEVABLE! So to answer your question...YES!
  • edited December 2011
    I agree with pp's about ignoring her.  Also, if she says something negative to your FI about you, tell him to handle her and don't tell you about it.  All the negativity coming from her is going to drive you crazy!
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  • edited December 2011
    Girl she just jealous cuz her son has a LIFE and a future WIFE - so don't let that ho (oops, I'm sorry y'all, it just slipped out...hahaha) I mean woman stress you out.

    I agree with the CHAYB87 and MRCLINTONSFIRST -- straight IGNORE her but do ask your FI not to tell you anything else she has to say going forward...that's just my $.02.

    Besides choking her out is not gonna solve anything but straight ignoring her egnate (not ignorant) a$$ will truly piss her the F off...LMBAO @ that! Laughing
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