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anyone experiencing.....

complete melt downs? I have cried everyday this week. :( everything is planned, nothing is pending really.. I am just nervous and a little scared Embarassed
and feel a little stressed out. But I burst into tears for over nothing. ugh I can't wait till this is all over so I can feel like the super me again
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  • KatiePaul2011KatiePaul2011 member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm sorry that really sucks... Just know that you are marrying the person you love and you get to spend the rest of your life with them... and breath and just enjoy the present I am feeling the same trying to plan out the future too far in advance..

    Congratuations and just relax
  • edited December 2011
    i'm so sorry your going through that, anxiety can really do a number on people can't it? your not alone, I'm in the planning phase, so a different space then you, but still a crying anxiety ridden maniac. Try to relax, drink tea read a favorite book, or do what relaxes and distracts you. your wedding will be gorgeous, I promise!
  • edited December 2011
    I have pretty bad anxiety right now too (but it's more job/$ related than wedding related).  It's not to the point of meltdowns, but I can feel it like a weight pressing down on me constantly.  One thing that is really helping is actually FI.  He has had a really positive, laid-back attitude about it all.  Anyway, good luck.  I hope yours dies down!
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  • briandbry2010briandbry2010 member
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks ladies. Yeah I have alot of work stuff going on too! I am telling you I don't know how people can work the last month leading up to the wedding. :)
    FI is so amazing. I have seasonal depression/anxiety as it is so he's used to calming me down. Just not in june when it's supposed to be sunny and Iam supposed to be ok! lol I'll hit the tanning be over the next couple of weeks and soak up the vitamin D
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  • edited December 2011
    Yeah, I'm right there with you!  I've freaked out at FI two weeks ago and last week suddenly it hit me "Holy crap, I'm getting married!" in a shocked sort of way.  Not quite cold feet, but it's daunting.  Add to it the same as you and Jennyann with money/work stress and I also have mild SAD and it's not a good combo.  There are times when I think I need to keep a paper bag handy just in case. :P
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  • edited December 2011
    yeah, this trip to Hawaii couldn't have come at a better time. I got so much WR stuff done and stocked up on my vitamin D.  THough I have to start doing my invitations when I get back and Im sure my stress level is going to shoot right back up.
  • edited December 2011
    I had this last week... before the rsvps were due and when we didn't have any idea how many people were coming to our wedding. now.. i'm just sorta worried about money, i don't want to be broke! otherwise, i'm ok. :)
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  • briandbry2010briandbry2010 member
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    edited December 2011

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    yeah I am feeling the same thing. not quite cold feet. I couldn't imagine marrying anyone but him. He is so amazing but it's still scary. we look at eachother everyday and go "OMG! were getting married in 2 weeks" Iam just trying to keep my self occupied. I never thought I would look forward to work for the distraction

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  • edited December 2011
    briandbry - I'm right there and I'm down to just days! I had a total freak out 2 weeks ago. I couldn't imagine marrying anyone but him but it IS scary. We've talked about how it's so scary for me. My parents had an awful, bitter divorce when I was little, my dad is currently divorcing my step-mom of 20 years, my sister is divorcing her husband...I have not seen many examples of good or healthy marriages in my life. I don't think we're going to be like them, but it does scare me. I'm a naturally conservative person (not in views, but in actions - I am a Capricorn) so any large life change ALWAYS freaks me out (job change, moving homes, large purchases like a car).

    And while it's solstice so technically we have more sun right now, the shiitty weather and gray drizzle I'm sure is praying on our SAD a bit. I know I'm back to winter-hibernation mode where I'm sleepy most of the time.
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  • briandbry2010briandbry2010 member
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    edited December 2011
    Crysee it's so nice to have these boards. thanks ladies for ketting me know Iam not loosing it. :)
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  • edited December 2011
    well....you ARE losing it, but at least you're not alone and it's normal? Wink
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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_washington-seattle_anyone-experiencing?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:104Discussion:3bdca99b-1bda-4784-a296-779cfe5e731bPost:2fd02976-0fe8-44f4-a31c-37dafa40a98e">Re: anyone experiencing.....</a>:
    [QUOTE]well....you ARE losing it, but at least you're not alone and it's normal?
    Posted by KST_[/QUOTE]

    Exactly.
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