The wedding's off. Because my fiance didn't think to find out anything from his family when I asked him FIVE TIMES whether he wanted to invite his extended family. He said no. FIVE TIMES.And his parents decided to get on him TODAY about it, instead of three months ago when we were talking about planning all of this. They think we should have the typical big wedding and invite everybody and all that jazz.
So now I need to cancel the venue, cancel the photographer that I spent DAYS trying to get ahold of, explain to my family that everything's off until further notice when both families are available at the same time, pay my mother back for the money she's going to lose because of the venue, etc, etc, etc.
I don't know how we're going to pay for the enormous wedding his family thinks we need. His parents won't cover it. My parents won't (or rather, can't) cover it. We certainly can't cover it.
Also, I'm done trying to make "wedding" work. Every SINGLE time I plan it, something happens to upset plans and make me lose the money that *I* spent because HE TOLD ME to plan. I'm tired of having him tell me to plan, and then having said plans pulled out from under me last-minute.