Hey Girls...most of you know about my 'situation' with my sister in law.
Since the day I got engaged, she's been acting like an indian girl who get's jealous, behaves rudely and creates drama for no reason.
Now it's even worse. I was completely willing to let it go of what she did to me ( she called me some pretty harsh words on my wedding day) but now she's IGNORING me....which is pretty immature.
The other day, there was a family event at her house, and I was helping to clear the table, and then she was standing infront of her sink and I just wanted to rinse my hands, I asked her if I could just get to the sink to wash my hands, she didnt respond to my question. One would think she'd respond with an "oh sure go ahead"... but she just walked away in a hissyfit.
We'll be in the same room and she won't say a word and when I ask her questions she gives me one word answers and give a cold shoulder.
She'll never smile around me or engage me in any conversation...she's just a real witch.
Why is she like this? My only guess is that during my wedding i was involved in the wedding planning and b/c her wedding was in India she didn't really plan hers...and she calls me controlling ...because I was the bride at my wedding and I was clear with everyone around me on what i wanted...sue me! (During the reception, her husband - hubz brother - told my sister that I'm controlling and that my sister could never make a decision for herself)... my sister was just doing everything she could to make me happy...especially as she knew that it was my special day and she knew what i wanted.
I'm about ready to tell her off and rip her head off...but I know I shouldn't ...any advice?