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kpwedkk

KP -

I just read your post and I am so sorry to hear! For having gone through all that within the span of a few months, you sound so up beat and positive. I know you'll do great as time goes on. It's really awful how things played out, but we're all here for you!

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  • kpwedkkkpwedkk member
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks Raangoli :-)  Having support makes all of the difference!

    I never wished for this to happen, but here I am, I have to make the best of my circumstances, and I can't mope around feeling sorry for myself.  I have to be positive, and dream the dreams that were stopped just a few years ago, and carry on :-)

    "The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched, they must be felt with the heart." ~ Miss K ~
  • edited December 2011
    @KP

    I, too, read your post and all I have to say is, continue to do you and do whatever makes you happy. regardless of anything anyone says. its your life. your "ex" hubby didnt deserve you. he obviously just used you. uuggghhh. im so sorry you're going through this. **HUGS** Don't leave us on here, but if you must, we understand. Stay strong!!!

    Xoxo
  • temurlangtemurlang member
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    edited December 2011
    KP -- I also read your post just now.  I'm newer to the board but you sent me a PM once a while back.

    Of course no one would wish for this to happen, but it sounds like you gave it ample consideration and made the right decision.  I'm glad your family is supportive of you and also that you made this decision now, and not further down the road when things would be even more complicated.  You can move on and find new happiness... GL!
  • edited December 2011

    Even though things are still in a spin, I think you've done the best thing for yourself. I'm glad your parents are supporting you during this time frame.

    The ex is a loser... flat out. Hopefully, he'll have to leave the US; he deserves it.

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  • HinajHinaj member
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    edited December 2011
    KP -

    I am so sorry.  I just read your post.  We are all here for you!!  This must be such a difficult decision to make, but you made the right choice.  Your ex doesn't deserve you and I am glad your family is being supportive of your decision and we are all here for you if you need us. 
  • edited December 2011
    I'm with all the other girls. We are here to support you! It can be hard and I've had friends go through the same kind of situation. I'm sorry you have to deal with it, but I'm sure there is a purpose and a reason. You'll find the man you deserve and this will be a distant memory
  • kpwedkkkpwedkk member
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks gals!  It's really appreciative!  While I do have a lot of experience from my own wedding that I can share, and look for great deals for you, I don't want this sudden bump in the road to be tarnishing those happy memories.

    One of my friends asked me, If I was to remarry in the future, would I go through the rigormaroo again, and half of me says no way, a simple signing at the court, and some jaimalas would suffice, and the other half of me would want something elaborate as well lol!

    "The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched, they must be felt with the heart." ~ Miss K ~
  • SonaliPopSonaliPop member
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    edited December 2011
    You did the right thing and we're all behind you, 100%. Thinking of you - you're very strong, and I'm so glad you have your family's support. He is a loser.
  • MrsBMMrsBM member
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    edited December 2011
    I was wondering where you were, but then the gals said you were on a cruise...
    I read the post and im so sorry to hear!  I cant believe that someone would do such a thing.  Someindian people can be terrible!  We are all here for you!
  • bridetobeeebridetobeee member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm so sorry for what happened to you. It's terrible! At the same time, I am glad you found out sooner rather than later so you can move forward and fill your life with true happiness and joy that you rightfully deserve. Remember that every wrong man who leaves your life only paves the way for the right one to come along....although I am sure you are not in a state to even think about anyone else right now. Stay strong!
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