I need your advice ladies, I know I can rely on you girls you can understand what I am going through...
so the good first, I am back from my shower and bach party from NYC this wkd, what a great wkd, I was happy to be surrounded by gf's we joked a lot and were in great mood all wkd , the best thing was the agenda was planned so perfectly for entire wkd by sis which put my mind at ease and its nice to take a breather from the word planning. She went all out and gotten a limo (to my surprise) from her house in Philly to NYC (4hr drive) we were relaxed the entire trip there.
Bad Drama that happened-There was some drama created at dinner by 2 girls that showed up (they are FI's best friends gf's) they werent speaking much with me at dinner I dont know why,regardless I thanked them twice politely (at end of dinner) with a hug for showing up to dinner but they didnt say thank you once for the invitation, I told FI a little bit of it but didnt have much time I was upset that they just walked away not acknowledging the invite at all.. During dinner, I tried to not leave them out and I tried hard to get them in convo with our group. Little did I know that would come to bite me in the ass. I was talking to one of the girls, (attempting to have a convo) so I thought I would think of a funny subject to losen them up. I mentioned to her about of this video that was taken at FI's bach party of her bf smashing beer cans with his head, and if she had seen it was funny. She commented by responding her bf doesnt share anything with her like that. I didnt have much to say after that, seems like she didnt want to talk. I tried other times but it was FAIL after that..
So same night these girls met up with one of FI's friends and mentioned about the video (they hadnt seen) and the girl acted so upset about it. So FI's friend had a fight with him saying it shouldnt have been mentioned to her, FI said to him that he never thought it would be taken wrongly because they(his friends) have shared embarassing or funny things like that before about FI with me and it never hurt anyone.I felt so bad and wanted to apologize to FI's friend which I did but my gf's disagreed saying I shouldnt have and that the girl is too uptight to let her man be, and do what he wants to do and have fun..what do you girls think?? I havent stopped thinking about the situation at all till then!