So the day of my bday my in-laws tell my FH that they are not coming to the wedding because they didnt get to plan it, regardless of me begging them numerous times to come down and help me (they reside in california and the wedding is in philadelphia). Its really bumming that they try to do this now, when they know the wedding is only 3 months away and am so stressed with the planning as it is. My FH said he expected them to act immature like this, he is not too bothered but am so bummed, I took a sick day off work.Ruined my bday completely and am trying to get it out of my head and wondering what should I do. I called up his parents to talk, they said they didnt get to plan I asked them i have been asking you guys for a long time to come and help I cant wait three months right before the wedding to plan it all, his mom said she didnt want to help financially, I had no issue with that. I have had the worst of luck dealing with his fam sigh. I hope they get over this and come to the wedding, I dont want my most important day to be a disaster..:(