As of this weekend I have an issue. The plan was to always were my nice, pretty white wedding dress for the ceremony and half the reception. Mostly, for cake cutting, first dance and things like that. Then, we would change and I would change into the traditional sari for all the tradition stuff.. Duh! Well FFIL stopped this. He wants the traditional stuff done the day after at his house like you would do in India! Which means me waking up and putting the sari back on, getting my parents (and family) and going over there. When I first planned this I didn't think it would be a big deal cause most people do it the first way and his parents are super traditional normally. My cousin's bought me some gold for the wedding which is suppose to be worn for the wedding. I would hate to not wear the sari (since it cost more then my dress) and have all that money be for nothing.
So there are the choices with background info.
~I can change half way through the reception for no reason and just do it.
~Change for the reception and people that want to see my dress will just see it at the ceremony.
~Not wear it at all and wear it for the few people who come to the house.
What would you do?