I'm not sure how to actually explain what I'm trying to ask but I'll give it a try.
For the ceremony, did you use all of the colors on your palette or did you minimize it? For example, if you had orange, white, red, and gold, did you just use orange and gold for the ceremony and all four colors for the reception? OK, not sure if that made sense.

But... Hopefully you understand what Im trying to say.

OOOHHH, and for the reception, were your colors a bit over powering?