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Two Weddings: How do I do this?

I'm from NY, my fiance is from Turkey, which means.... we have to have two weddings, one in each place because people simply can't travel. I'm in control of the one here, and he's arranging his wedding there since our customs are different and I don't speak Turkish. Only a handful of guests will come to both weddings. 

- Which do I do first? 
- How do I make it clear to our guests that they don't have to come to both, but are welcome at both? 
- Do I make separate invitations? The theme here will be vintage seaside. There it will be traditional Turkish.

Any suggestions or advice are VERY appreciated and welcome!

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