So far it seems that my wedding is going to be things that I am okay with, but may not exactly be my favorite. My mother is very worried about the wedding looking cheap, or making my family look poor to my FH's PHD father and mother. Also most of my family is from argentina so they expect ritzy classic looks, which I am okay with but I would rather have it be fun. A book theme (I'm a future librarian), or harry potter! (ESPECIALLY HARRY POTTER) or even a superhero theme complete with comic book wedding favors.
How can I add my fun bits as well?