So I'm offbeat-majorly lol
I have always been an anti wedding girl to the point where I don't even attend them.
I recently got enaged after 7 years of dating my boyfriend. I am so anti traditional that I didn't even want a ring that looked like an engagement ring.
I don't want any hoopla, gifts, partys, bridesmaids or any crap surrounding a wedding. I think they are a waste of time and money.
The problem is my boyfriend would like to have celebrations and a small wedding.
To me even having 4 people at a wedding is to many.
How do I explain my point of view to family who want to send cards and buy gifts when I don't want them to, but don't want to seem rude.
I'm a non traditional girl and will never give in to the norm and won't budge on this one. I'd rather die than prance down the aisle in a stupid white dress.