So we are doing a bridal party dance but i am unsure exactly how to do this. We have an uneven number of attendents.. 4 men and 6 ladies. So all though 1 gentlman escorts two women...it doenst really make sence for them to dance with both of them..its just a little too sister wives for my taste

Any way I am wondering can I have them dance with their significant others? Two of them arnt coming with an SO so they will be dancing together. THe song we are dancing too is the first min of "merry me" by train and then it will break into Ithe lonely islands "I just had sex" (off the wall and so inappropriate but i dont care). SO my question is..."is it ok to ask their SOs to be apart of the bridal party dance?" I also should note that multple members of the bridal party are gay and would be dancing with their same sex partner...our familys will not at all be shocked by this, but some of the guests might be (I say screw em) but I wanted to know would you be ok with this offbeat non traditional bridal party dance if you were a guest?
Ps: the wedding takes place in Lancaster Pa...one of the most conservative places in ...um...everywhere...you know Amish and what not.