My FI and I are in our 40s. we are having a 5000.00 backyard wedding at our home we have agreed it to be somewhat casual. He will be in tan pants and a button down, a tent, catered buffet with bbq food, a band, and cupcakes for wedding cake, I want the dress. I think I will be over dressed but i want it he says go for it. will i look over dressed. it is a ball gown I don't know how to upload it sorry. post on here say its your day do what you want but what would you think if you were at my wedding as a guest.