So, I'm trying to decide what to do. I am so thrilled to be marrying the man of my dreams BUT I don't want a wedding. At all. He wants something to invite his family to and I wouldn't mind some event that would bring our two families together for the first time but I don't want to be the "bride." I worked with a wedding planner (professionally) for about 4 years and I just can't get beyond thinking about the expense, the wastefulness, and the work involved. Ugh! Any ideas?