First things first. Please don't comment with things like "Don't do it!" , because I've had several long, hard coversations with myself and I still want to marry my fiancee. Secondly, don't ask his charges, because I can't dicuss them. But. If anyone has married an inmate before, has had family who has married an inmate, or has in any way observed the process, and would like to give advice, I would be eternally grateful. I would love to have some general idea of what I need to do. And if anyone is a prison wife on here, I'd love to get to know you.